Recent content by Iceman1978

Accepting my own ugliness was..by far..the most difficult pill to swallow. For the most part, I try not to think about it, and most of the time it doesn't bother me as it once did. There are still times however when it's upsetting, but at least those are less frequent than they used to be.

Trust me. I understand this now. I will regret this for as long as I live. It wasn’t so much a matter of me allowing myself to be used, but more like being trapped. Since my name was on it, I was required to maintain insurance regardless if he paid it back or not, and I suspect he knew that...

I recently found out just how disgusting he really is. He was arrested about two weeks ago for domestic violence.

To trust someone to that extent? No. Doesn’t mean I don’t have close friends though. I have a few close friends and they were there for me when I went through this. It is sad though. What this guy put me through? I wouldn’t do this to my worst enemy. I had assumed a worst case scenario of...

What I am about to post is long, but I’ve been away from the message boards for a while and wanted to share my story of what I’ve been through these past two years. About three years ago I made what turned out to be one of the biggest mistakes of my life. I cosigned an auto loan for someone...

MentatsGhoul, It just hurts though. It's hurt me something awful. It makes me feel like I don't even have what it takes to attract women.

Thanks SkaFish. For me I just feel like having confidence and a good opinion of myself is one of the toughest battles I've ever faced in life. LonesomeLoner, What do you do to help you get through the rough times?

The other night I was at a bar hanging out with a friend of mine. While we were talking, this woman walked by, looked at him and said "you're pretty cute" as she was walking out. He got up and followed her, and then came back a few minutes later. While I know that I should be happy for him, and...

Learning to like myself is going to be the greatest battle of my life so far. Considering that I have an overwhelming sense of worthlessness.

Paraiyar, Yes.

I don't know.

I just had an appointment with the psychiatrist earlier. She told me that women see me as unapproachable because I never smile and I'm very shy. I explained to her that in a social setting I'm fine when I'm with friends, but in a scene where there are singles, I simply can't handle it. I have...

Yes. I am ugly to the point where women reject me with one look. It is that simple.

Jenncats, The last time I dated was 1997, and the way it ended was when she just didn't return calls, was never home, etc. Didn't even have the decency to break up and say so. A few years later, these friends of mine tried to set me up with someone. We added each other on Facebook and chatted...

Someone could have also created a phony account pretending to be them. Double-check to see if they're still on your friend list. If they are, then someone else has stolen their photos to create a phony account.