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    Confusion concerning minor ways of self harm (not suicidal)

    Hey! Thanks for those kind words. I wish the best to you too. Thanks, it really means a lot! You're right, actually, after writing that text I was kinda happy or somehow relieved because I noticed the impulse, but I didn't actually harm myself in the end. So... I think that was a little "win"...
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    What's a painful truth you've had to swallow?

    Oh man, that's rough... My mom has experienced the same with her mom... And it is something you really can't let go, I really can't imagine the pain... I'm so sorry to hear that... Now that you made me think about my mom, I'd like to say that she is really the best mom you could wish for, you...
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    What's a painful truth you've had to swallow?

    Yes, that last sentence is key. I also regret many things from the past. But I don't like to stay too long on the "regret" part. There's nothing I can do about it. I'm so glad to read that you're doing so much better in the present. That's what is most valuable!
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    What's a painful truth you've had to swallow?

    Excuse me!? Is that supposed to be a negative truth? Man! You're free! Yes, it is painful and disappointing that you'll never live up to other people's expectations. But that pain and disappointment can't live forever. They'll fade at some point. And what are you left with? A whole life, a...
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    I'm 22 and can't even get a 16 year old girl to date me. I feel so pathetic.

    Hey Matt, I'm sorry that you're feeling that way. Thanks for sharing those feelings, I think that's a first and very important step. I understand how you feel you know... I've experienced those kinds of feelings in other contexts and I know how infuriating and frustrating they can be. You just...
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    Confusion concerning minor ways of self harm (not suicidal)

    Thanks! I think you're absolutely right. I have the tendency to do that in many aspects of my life actually. It makes total sense to me. Thank you so much!
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    Confusion concerning minor ways of self harm (not suicidal)

    Hi guys! How are you? It's been a while since I last posted here. I think I'm not really good at keeping up with this kind of interaction (and it's not the only one I suck at though, lol). I'll try my best to try to improve, I'd really like to and maybe get to meet new friends. I decided to...
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    Am I married to a narcissist ?

    Man! While reading your story I couldn't help but think, "how the f you ended up there?", being honest, one can tend to take a judgemental position. But then I realized that I've also allowed people to mistreat me out of lack of self love an self respect and then, when time passes by, I ask...
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    Chat room!

    Hey! I'd like to join! Thanks c:
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    I hate and love my isolation

    I also enjoy my loneliness. But I do crave company sometimes. When I find comfortable a social interaction I feel very happy. I've noticed that I am a very social person, and that talking and sharing is good for me. It recharges me in a way. But I've always been a loner, a very shy and quiet...
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    I Feel Incomplete

    Yes. I feel you in so many ways. you put words to feelings I haven't been able to name. This idea of having a best friend but never being a best friend is painful, it makes me even angry. Also feeling the need of jiggle de mouse as you said, this almost desperation for "entertaining" people, so...
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    Random loner Colombian woman

    Thank you, you too, you are also enough 🥺
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    Random loner Colombian woman

    I get you. I've felt that in so many different situations ...
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    Random loner Colombian woman

    Yes I do. Of course. But I don't want him to be the only one. I've noticed that it puts some extra weight on his shoulders. Like it tends to make me more dependant on him in some sort of way. That's what bothers me in this situation... He has other friends, a lot actually, and he tries to share...
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    Random loner Colombian woman

    I love everything you said and also the way you say them. Thank you for taking the time to reply, both things, your words and your time mean so much. Thank you!
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