Recent content by Laava

I like this a lot. Well put together.

Thanks! Yes if people think you're inauthentic you're not taken seriously or are viewed as a fetish. I think authenticity should be determined by feelings and personality. Morrowwrd, yes there is some truth to that...although I think out of the lgbtq community trans people have it the...

I'm trying. It's just really hard because I'm part of a minority where it seems like 98% of the people interested only have one thing in mind. I wish the dating pool was much bigger and more diverse like the mainstream.

Thanks for the words. I try to be the best I can be but it is hard sometimes...there are times when I get these evil stares and actual threats or get turned down because I am perceived a freak.

My life is going well but it is so hard to find someone who doesn't view you as just a sexual object or fetish....I thought this guy and I were falling in love about a year ago, only to tell me flat out that he was using me. I don't dress provocatively and I am actually sweet. I wish society...