Recent content by --Lanie--

to be honest i think this is just stupid, i don't have any true friends either and my mom wants to kick me out and nobody really cares about me, and i really suck at school (and it's grade 12..), and yea yesturday i also got fired from my job.. but so what? If you start recalling all the...

You can use a diary for that. By the way a diary is a nice way to relief yourself from stress and confusion.. once you start writing down your worries and concerns everything starts falling back into place and soon you can see a way out of a situation and it turns out everything was not as...

Thank you. Now i'm gonna be less 'desperate' about it :) But what is loneliness then??

wow this is so weird! i don't understand how can a person possibly be so busy not to be able to spend 2-3 hours with a friend in 7 days!and yea, i actually saw when my friend (who was pretty popular) was inviting ppl to her birthday party some of them said they couldn't go BECAUSE OF HOMEWORK...

i on the other hand would want to be told what to do.. The more precisely the better. I actually searched the internet hoping to find something. The closest result was "a glam girl's life" or something.. But those were mainly books too, and if not it was mainly advices on how to dress only...

why no?

Have you ever tried going to a psychologist with your friendlessness-problem? Do you think a psychologist can help? If yes, to what extent do you think he/she can help..? is it just finding out how a problem started and what cauzed it (which is certainly interesting to know) or is it about...

i don't think being lonely at work is any better than being lonely at school or at colledge.. :(

well for me, as i said,-- rather a lot, then ppl are busy and i feel rejected which results in the feeling that something's wrong (with me), so i think id better find out how much is normal :)

I know this may sound like a weird question for you but please tell me HOW MUCH SOCIALIZING DO YOU THINK IS NORMAL? like how many times a week an ordinary grade 12 student with no social problems should go out with his/her friends and that kind of stuff? In my first thread i was trying to...

maybe instead of just trying to "live through it" you should try to fix it? Because social skills are social skills and people are pretty much the same everywhere. i mean after you finish school you'll probably go to u or college and you will have to make friends there again, and then again at...

Thanks for your advice! I used to be on the running team of my school, i met a girl there, we talked during the practices and went to races together, but didn't really do anything outside that. But for me a friend is someone with whom you can go anywhere. Like in my country i had 3-4 ppl with...

Hi! I really don't know what to do and what is wrong with me.. I don't have any friends. I talk to ppl at school and at work but none of them seem to want to hang out with me. Two and a half years ago i moved to this country. Back in my country i already had long established friendships made in...