Recent content by lilBlackCat

I agree with others... You ARE already cheating.. You need to stop and end it. Period. As a betrayed spouse.. assuming you are not married.. but I was basically in the situation she is in.. So, in my point of view... YOU allowed yourself to fall out of love or attraction.. and now you are just...

Lol!

Yea.. I'd like to think that ourtime.com isn't for me yet.. Lol!

I have been told that I don't have any game.. I can talk to any woman, no prob.. but to spew them lines to get them beyond small talk.. eh, I suck.. Lol!

Thank you everyone :)

I am and I try to keep positive.. Cause if I listened to the first person who responded.. I'd be under a rock somewhere calling it a life.. Lol!

Well.. dam.. I guess, I am just screwed then.. LOL!!!

I am now separated, with no possible venture of a reconciliation.. basically wife walked out on me and the kids and started a new life with a new man. That said, looking at on-line dating... You see 90% of women want really tall guys and overlook the rest.. Didn't realize how short 5'6" was...

Personally, I am not gay... So as I continue to strike out over and over with the ladies.. That option will never become an option.. If it's a possible option for you, then.. the question is already answered... Just be true to yourself.. That's all that matters.

Well, assuming you are younger than me.. I wouldn't worry about it... Give it more time.. There's always at least one good match for us out there... even if it's a temporary one.

46 here, but definitely young at heart..

46 here..

Hi everyone, I'm 46 and live in So. CA.. I am on the recovery path from infidelity, I am separated.. and am looking to make new friends and meet new people.. I have 4 kids, and although it's great to spend time with them and what not.. outside work, I really don't have any friends.. After...