Recent content by LostintheBardo

I always see women complaining saying things like "Where have all the good men gone?", "Men need to commit and step up more" and "Men aren't traditional anymore and just play video games all day." My question about this is, why is it that some women seem to think that men are responsible for...

You say that she is a "good woman" but I can't see much of anything in your description of her that makes her come across that way. If she refuses to lose weight when you are willing to put your health and self esteem first by losing weight then she really isn't giving you her best whilst it...

Edit: nvm.

People just won't look at the facts, take a look at tinder swipe rates for instance: https://thebolditalic.com/the-two-worlds-of-tinder-f1c34e800db4 Funny thing is some people tell me I'm not bad looking but Tinder is still honeysuckle for me. I know I swipe right on a reasonable number of girls that...

If anything I think Ardour is the one having to beat a deadhorse. The majority of women won't date down and the most unhappy demographic in the U.S is unmarried, childless career women. I think a lot of the people disagreeing with him are just choosing to look at the western dating scene as...

Do you try to learn those kinds of melodies by ear? If not then you probably won't internalize them which is probably can't write anything like them.

Why can't it just be 2006 again? With me knowing then what I know now of course...

No I disagree, whilst I think Tinder may yield somewhat harsher results for men then real life dating might, I still think it is very telling. Women are simply much more selective when it comes to sexual selection, it's just silly to pretend otherwise and notice that not one person who disagrees...

There is evidence that this does indeed happen and that it has been quite a persistent dynamic. See for instance: https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success   "Once upon a time, 4,000 to 8,000 years after humanity invented agriculture, something very strange happened to human...

If so many dudes are posting the same thing then maybe it is a reflection of the fact it is quite a common issue?

What was the point of posting this? What point are you trying to make? That your experiences dating as a trans person somehow invalidate the OPs experience as an average dude? Yep, I agree. If you do well in an area from the get go then you will be more confident in that area and not have...

I don't want to sound like a prick but what you describe leads me to think she was never sexually attracted to you at all but just saw you as the emotional support nice guy to unload on about the dude she was actually into.

This is ******* delusional behaviour. Have some respect for yourself. This girl probably doesn't even know you exist let alone want to date you. You are acting like she is more valuable than you when she isn't. And yes, silence is rejection. If a girl wants to be with you she'll respond, it is...

That isn't happening until there is a vaccine and then it will take ages to be distributed. At least here in NZ we are currently free of any community transmission.

I'm not sure X was trying to imply that women at their peak of attractiveness are shallow, just that it would be really tempting for a lot of them to not settle down with all the male attention they will get without even trying (particulary if they are really attractive). Being a really...