Recent content by Marik_757

Happened to me recently. In my case I really admired her, but the last I heard from her was that we were just friends. l haven't seen nor received texts or talked to her for almost a week now even though we live so close to each other... she going back home to visit family for almost a month in...

Day 1 (5/25/12): It's been almost a year and a half since I've logged on to this site. Still dealing with the same issues I decided to come back for the purposes of finding advice to better myself rather than to rant & vent. I feel more confident about myself tackling these issues now that I...

Day 1 (5/25/12): It's been almost a year and a half since I've logged on to this site. Still dealing with the same issues I decided to come back for the purposes of finding advice to better myself rather than to rant & vent. I feel more confident about myself tackling these issues now that I...

I never talked about my social issues/awkwardness/loneliness to anyone IRL. Not even my own family... But one day it all built up when I was invited out to go drink with a few friends and ended up spilling the beans about my flaws. Never, have I cried in front of my friends before. Never, have I...

Day 1 (5/25/12): It's been almost a year and a half since I've logged on to this site. Still dealing with the same issues I decided to come back for the purposes of finding advice to better myself rather than to rant & vent. I feel more confident about myself tackling these issues now that I...

I'm not black ... I'm a pacific islander... And I dont agree with the method of being a ********* to get a girl... To be honest I grew up avoiding people which had a huge impact on me gaining dating experience. I'm always in a defensive mode cause of trust issues... Which leaves me to approach...

Any kind of cardio that raises the heart rate is fine. You can even use Wii fit for all I care. But I hate that thing ...

That's great news to hear, Keep up with your goals! I'm iffy on creatine, it only works if you keep using it... if you stop you'll feel the withdrawl effects. Basically it's just a pump to give you more energy to do things, and makes your muscle absorb more water, making them look bigger ha!

Doing ab work just builds muscle, doing light cardio work will shed the pounds. Men store fat in their gut, so when you begin to lose pounds you will start to notice your abs. Doing ab work will give them better definition and make them bigger.

Good call on the portion control/size, totally forgot that ... and as for snacks, I do mean healthy snacks not the junk food ... remember this is for getting the metabolism going. Eating 4~6 times a day is not enough in my book, but eating small portion meals to include snacks every 3~4 hours...

Well since I work at the fitness center I might as well give a few tips for healthy weight loss, right? ==================================================== Before I even begin let me lay a few facts down: 1. Don't fall for those workout equipment you see being sold on T.V. (98% of them is...

Thanks everyone for your comments! I get out and hang with some friends of the opposite sex. Going to partys and stuff, so far it's been a great boost to my confidence. I always put myself in a engaged mode, where if I want something to happen or want to talk with someone I must react with 5...

Don't know how to put it in words but this picture below pretty much explains everything...

Just being aware of the situations that might be making me socially awkward ... If I can spot what I'm doing wrong I think it can help me open up. Some things I've noticed with myself: - Checking phone because I have nothing to contribute to the conversation. - Waiting for the right time to...

^ This to me explains everything ... I guess during that time of release is when she decided you wasn't interested in her anymore, so she found someone new???