Its also worth pointing out, which type of girl are you interested in. Its going to be harder to attract the prettier girls. Are you setting your standards too high.
I say this because as a guy i feel its harder cus guys are expected to do the approaching and initiate things. Or maybe am thinking narrow minded. If a girl is in a bar or anywhere else for that matter as long as she looks presentable guys will approach her. For a guy it more difficult cus if...