Recent content by Ninjacat

companionship

Hi Chris,  I think you're right, you'll feel better when you get a job, you'll at least be in the company of other humans then ! don't know what sort of work you're looking for, but couldn't you start somewhere - anywhere ?  even if it's not what you want right now, just to get you out of the...

Hi, yes it did ! also a lot of pain, but there would have been more pain to stay put. I'm taking baby steps and getting small rewards and feeling motivated to move on. If anyone is out there going through what I did, don't leave it 26 years before finding the courage to get out !  don't waste...

Well it's been a long time - 7 years to be exact.  I didn't realise so many people had left comments for me.  'He' shut me down completely, crushed my spirit, destroyed my soul, took away my joy in living and suffocated me completely.  I now know he was (is) a fully paid up member of the...

I can't stand this much longer .............. the feelings of loneliness and rejection are just too much everyday I wait for a kind word, an acknowledgement that I'm still breathing, but there's nothing ..... I have to get out of this relationship before it kills me. I am totally crushed I...

It's my birthdaytoday ...... OH hasn't wished me 'happy birthday' or even bought a card :( Guess I've turned invisible again.

I've done this - not the same as you but I'm sure the nerves were the same ! At my daughters wedding, her father (my ex) let her down badly at the last minute, my son was called in to 'give her away' and I had to do the 'father of the bride speech' - I was horrified and a nervous wreck just...

I'm a Scorpio - through and through I think it's easy to dismiss this as rubbish - but I try to keep an open mind and I certainly do conform to all the traits attributed to Scorpio - especially the part about the sting in the tail - cross me at your peril :) (no-one on here of course!) As a...

Hi again, I've had a bad few days so stayed away - Jicky - I notice you said 'when I 'was' married' - I take it you aren't now then ? I love the slogan on your bag by the way ! Well at 4 am this morning, I left the house - because it's really so bad now that I can't bear to be here when he's...

Oh dear - when I was a child there were hardly any childrens programmes on TV - but I well remember sitting with my children watching Joe 90, Rupert Bear, Andy Pandy, Captain Scarlet, Mr Ben - yes I'm old ! Ninjacat

OMG - I hope not ! I strive everyday NOT to be like my Mother - rest her soul - she did her best but .............. Ninjacat

OK - I just found the profile section - but how do I know when it's other members birthdays ? apart from checking all their profiles and I'm sure there has to be a quicker way ? Ninjacat

I'm just the opposite - my motto should be 'If something can go wrong - it will !' So many people have said they have never met anyone who has such bad luck as me ! If there were two people in a room having 100 go's at a raffle - I'd never win ! Sorry but I don't subscribe to the theory that...

Hello, I'm sorry to hear of your pain ..... I empathise with you completely. 5 years is a long time, I suppose you had expectations and hopes for the future which have been destroyed. I divorced after many more years than that, so I know what it's like. There's no magic 'cure' its a time thing...

May I wish you belated Birthday Greetings ? It's sad that your family couldn't spend some time with you, after all 21st is pretty special isn't it ? I do hope you at least got cards ? But I don't know the circumstances or what they were thinking, so I just hope you don't get too down about it...