Recent content by Quietude

Yeah I am the same. I get on with people, but I also don't put myself out there. Mine comes from having bad anxiety and depression issues in the past.

Is it weird to think that no one would ever want to be with you? I have thought about this subject a great deal and legitimately feel as though no one would ever want to be with me. I have never been in a proper relationship and also have zero friends, literally. I'm a positive person who...

Nah you are not alone in that at all, I'm in my 30's and never been in a relationship. It boggled my mind for a while how everyone I know seems to find someone. The thing is everyone is looking, the people who are acceptable socially, have interest in things etc... the people who basically...

The whole human race are a bunch of freaks though. The amount of ridiculous opinions people have... The quirks people have...  Some people are just generally better than others socially. Often times people have weird quirks behind closed doors even if they are good socially. The world of humans...

There are certainly other people out there who also have problems when it comes to this subject. I also never ever got any encouragement or validation from family or peers for anything in my life. Anything that I have done that someone commented positively on, seemed insincere to me...

Sir Joseph, I'm sorry that you feel the need for a religion to be content. Religion is not something of any worth for me, someone who is very much so a humanist.  Much like I don't take certain drugs which often act as a catalyst for fixing a problem (instead of fixing the root of the problem)...

What do you want a girlfriend for? If it's purely for sex then of course you don't actually need a girlfriend. If it's for love and companionship well you most certainly are not going to find that in a hired girlfriend. If it's for loneliness, this certainly won't help either, there are...

This is perhaps loosely related to this post. I have a theory that some people can only really be happy and not feel lonely if they are doing something creative and also learning something, in a way that makes you feel like you belong to something more than yourself. A lot of people fall in to...

I have done more soul searching and self-reflection than 99.9% of the human race and made giant strides in life. Unfortunately my family are people who are simply not the types to provide those kinds of answers that you mention might result from talking. They are nice people and I get on with...

What I mean is that there are very many non-stereotypical/non-generic things about both my looks and personality which I feel creates someone who is not considered romantically viable. Even arrogant dickheads that would treat a partner with no respect would be picked over me. I don't really want...

Yeah, women and men are really not that different. There are just so many things in society, social things etc that create a fabricated divide between the genders making it seem like we are almost separate animals sometimes even, really it's all just an exaggeration. I think confidence while...

Unfortunately, due to past circumstances (nothing bad that I or anyone else did), I have no friends. I have some good close family but they are all very different to me.  Fortunately, I'm not actually all that lonely or depressed, been there in the past and know what it's like. I have...

I feel like I could never be loved. I'm just too weird... led too much of an odd life, an unusual look and unusual mind...  There is nothing actually wrong with me, I'm very sound morally, good family, good upbringing, no odd interests or anything, no secrets, nothing. I have a lot of...

Sounds like you can certainly do better. Don't feel bad though, there are so so many people who fall for the misguided with no future, both men and women. It's a shame that some people never see that though, never realize they could have a better more successful, have a more fulfilling time...

lol yeah. A loooong time ago I met a girl, really liked her and she was really friendly with me, we clicked in a lot of ways. (she also hugged me straight off when I met her, didn't even know who she was, not that it necessarily means anything. I think she had some inside information about me...