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    Getting refered to as "The only single person here."

    I think I'm at the endgame of this cycle. Almost all of my friends are now partnered up, whereas I've never really had anything more than a few drunken hookups in nightclubs (all of which I can count on a single hand over the space of my twenties). My reasons for not partnering up are not...
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    Let it go?

    I actually had to look up 'crab in a bucket' mentality. ... Evidently, for the sake other's personal growth, I must take my leave.
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    Let it go?

    Yeah, I'd say you've run into a wall here. Best to give this one up. I'd go further and just avoid the sandwich shop altogether at this point. It's just gonna be awkward for both of you. If there's a lesson to be learnt here, it's that you should always play the grey man when out in public...
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    DealMAKERS

    I.... I actually don't even know.
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    What is better for you, hookup sites or hookup apps?

    For what it's worth, your driving instructor was a ****** for asking you to take a fall for him. Things are very different nowadays. If you ask 10 women out, there's a good chance you're getting escorted out by security. Although these sites are essentially a scam to prey on the lonely...
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    Dating women from work

    I don't see why it can't be done. A year and a half ago, I attended the wedding of a few of my workmates. They new have a few month old baby boy. There's another couple in my workplace. Unsure if they're married or not. Never thought to ask. That being said, they're generally the exceptions to...
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    What is better for you, hookup sites or hookup apps?

    Dating sites/apps and hookup sites are a dime a dozen. Each or them barely worth their part in that dime. I lost my faith some time ago in these things. I may be lonely and miserable, but I'll be damned of someone wants to make money off of it.
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    Can you imagine falling in love

    I want to touch upon the 'getting the T-shirt' concept. I think alot of us here would be perfectly fine with living a a solitary existence. But, I think we need to experience that otherside first. Like, if I could have a relationship that last say, 3 to 6 months, it breaks down either amicably...
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    Dating Sites

    Yeah...... I can't do em anymore either. I genuinely believe the 20-80 rule is legit, and because I'm not in that top 20% of men, my presence on theses sites only serves to line someone's pockets. But outside of that, my options are null now. I have, more or less been excommunicated from...
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    What would you do when someone you don't want to date may be your only option?

    Yeah, this is the same train of thought I have about the whole thing too. But the question I ask here is: Is it shallow of me to think like this? And am I wrong to do so?  While I think the family would judge me harshly on the age difference, my circle of friends, not so much, since we're in...
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    What would you do when someone you don't want to date may be your only option?

    I'm sure you've all heard this story before. Man is single. Man is lonely. Man can't get women to even look his way. Man does not know why, for he is a nice guy. If I told you this story, that would be a lie. Because I have the option to end all that tomorrow if I wanted to. The catch is that I...
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    What is love?

    Are you suggesting that if it was love I felt, I would been compelled to act on my feelings? Because I can guarantee you I wouldn't have regardless.
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    What is love?

    I would object to the highlighted text. So I've had several crushes in my 32 years of existence(none of which I've ever acted on). Once it becomes clear that my 'love' will never be reciprocated, the feeling slowly dissipates, and all the emotions-both good and bad dull to nothing more than an...
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    FEEL TRAPPED

    I think Richard's advice is the most sound advice so far. If you're a gym bro, BE a gym bro. You're already halfway further than most guys that frequent this board will EVER get. You're in shape, and at least carry enough confidence to initiate dates. If you can make the numbers game work for...
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    Online Dating?

    @Ghost77, or the OP, or whoever might be reading this. If that brief exchange was anything to go by, then you should steer clear of sites like these. Or at least limit your interaction with them. I get why places like this might be appealing to the romantically challenged. You feel alone and...
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