Recent content by Sebiguess

Different countries are, well, different. And you mentioned “the last decade” of bottling up your emotions. It would be quite different if that decade was spent in school, vs the decade that precedes midlife. Sounds like you and I have some things in common. Same age more or less, and I have...

Then thanks for the welcome 🤗

Hi xephier. Mind if I call you Zeff? It’s easier to remember how to spell that! Can I ask your (approximate) age and location? Decade and nation is enough, I’m not asking for your address or anything :)

So it’s a mailshot. *holds it up and looks at it* Er…. Thanks? 😜

We actually already talked you know, in the chat room 🙄

No, it’s really not!

I also avoid the news. Similar reasons. I think the term for my friend is “principled psychopath”. I can’t remember where I heard that (probably a bad TV show) but it fits. Serial killing would certainly not bother him, but he won’t do it because it’s “against the rules”. The fact that the...

Hello Andrea. Nice name! I can relate to what you said about being lonely; very well put. I’m new here same as you. Sounds like there might be other similarities too :) Seb

Yeah I agree with you.

Ah, thanks for explaining. Well, when she didn’t seem to be grieving for her brother it turned out to be because she was in fact not grieving for her brother. Sometimes things are exactly what they seem to be. I have a friend (well, an old acquaintance would be more technically correct) who...

So it’s like mini rape or something?

There’s a big difference between learning to grieve and learning *how* to grieve. Speaking of which, I may have grabbed the wrong end of the stick. Maybe JJW meant the latter.

She’s very wordy, going on those pages. Lots of words with very little actually being said (sorry - you obviously like her, but I don’t based on initial impression). All I meant by my comment is that when we lose someone we love the grief is natural and unstoppable. The concept of such a thing...

If you want to hire a woman, hire a woman. What’s to discuss?

After clicking the link my first thought is “a kid made this”. If you *are* a kid then… great work! Keep at it. Keep learning. You’ll get there. If you’re not, don’t give up your day job.