Recent content by shoegazer

Thanks for the replies guys, some positive stuff coming back that definitely makes for good reading :) I wasn't always like this, just I've now been single for about 4 years with one or two slightly awkward and clumsy flings inbetween. I think I've just left it so long the whole process seems...

Just noticed the introductions bit so thought it'd be rude not to post something. I'm a 27 year old single guy from Scotland. Main hobbies are football (soccer) and guitar. I like to think of myself as a pretty nice guy, but I gotta' lotta' hang-ups that can viciously lower my self-esteem...

Cheers for the reply mate. I kinda' know it's about just taking the plunge sometimes, but I really struggle to find the courage to do so! Argh! I think maybe I worry that there's something off-putting about me on the inside. I guess so many people are worried about what people think of their...

I get like that sometimes too, usually there isn't even a specific reason for it. Just end up being low for the sake of being low. Often find the temptation to listen to depressing music and feel sorry for myself comes in, but lately I've found doing the exact opposite does help me. Music with...

First off, just discovered this forum by chance and finding it incredibly helpful - if for no other reason than knowing there are other guys out there who have the same hang-ups I do. Anyways, long story short I have literally no confidence when I like a girl. (I'm fine round the ones I don't)...

I actually registered on this forum in order to reply to this man. I don't mean to rub it in, but reading about your plight has actually made feel better about myself as I'm EXACTLY the same! I dunno' what it is in me, it's like I only ever get angry about these confrontations about ten minutes...