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    I've been ghosted: how to react when the other person disappears

    When one is ‘ghosted’ there is nothing to do but bestow self-love. Focus on your own needs that do not include revenge, or that other person. Also, do not allow yourself to make (more) stupid choices. How best can you get healthy and remain healthy? Organize your life in such a way that you...
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    I've been ghosted: how to react when the other person disappears

    Imo this is not only ‘unclassy’, as you have stated- it is the highest form of cruelty when bestowed upon one that you have claimed to truly Love. Whether they have made mistakes and hurt you or not, since you are an adult you should be able to ‘put those big-boy pants on’ and communicate in...
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    Marriage probably over

    She sounds like a narcissist. The two of you need professional relationship counselling. A therapist can help navigate the relationship best. Pride and family are not helping it sounds like. If she cannot seek help with you, then it is likely that you must part ways, as it takes two to repair a...
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    It doesn't matter what I say or do

    #1 Do not listen to lyrics like that anymore. Not helpful. Choose songs that are uplifting and more positive while you are in this frame of mind. #2 You are human and so are your family and others. No one is perfect, and sometimes people simply do not click with certain others. It doesn’t...
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    Feeling no matter what I do, its always wrong.

    You need to start being more kind to yourself! Ask yourself what you would tell someone that you really care about who had the same thoughts. You might tell them that they’re valuable and a unique individual who has something to offer. If someone makes mistakes, that only means that they’re...
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    thanks but no thanks..

    You should just go. I have a couple of kids and lots of family who refuse to get the vaccine. I suck it up and hang out because life is too short as is to let this matter ruin our chances to be together. Cancer just took a dear family member, and I’ll be damned if I waste any more time when it...
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