Recent content by soccer7

can i please join too?

I have learnt that i can be delusional and very tunnel vision sometimes when i'm lonely and really want to believe that someone likes me the way that i like them. I also learnt that if i don't try new things and keep moving forward and have a goal, my life becomes very stale and i will naturally...

people are social creatures, its embedded in our dna, if you were suddenly cast away onto an island without anyone, i'm sure you'll go crazy like Tom Hanks did in the movie "Cast away" and start creating imaginary friends just to keep your sanity. Yes we can be happy without people for a period...

what i mean by trouble is if a person looks like they might be a hassle to deal with or cause you trouble in some way like they might have an attitude problem, they look dangerous, they carry a weapon or previously injured someone etc. In your case you avoid those that like to gossip and cause...

Hi clover4you, from your post it seems like you're taking everything more personally and seriously than others if i'm not mistaken. from the top of my head one method that might help you to slowly overcome this is to meditate. meditation is the practice of slowing down your thoughts and making...

I believe charm is the ability to convince people are you a likable person, one of the best way to charm people is to make them feel acknowledged and liked. if you can make someone feel genuinely acknowledge and liked in a friendly way then they will feel great, because everyone is looking for...

with all the scams and taking advantage of each other going on its not unusual that people usually have their guard up these days about strangers approaching them. School kids are especially less likely to be caring about your feelings and do whatever they think is cool or what they think makes...

hi Andrew, it seems you've given up hope on trying to improve yourself, to figure why people are walking away from you, or why you think they don't like you. Perhaps you think that ignoring your feelings for connection and depression and distracting yourself with video games and tv series will...

you might be right lol

your help is much appreciated :D the answer is no to all the above lol, i only drove her home twice and that was it. we used to talk outside work but it was always me who initiated, and it was far and few and it was on facebook messenger  i don't have her number nor does she have mine, we use...

oh wow a message, thanks for reading my super long post i made last night, sorry about deleting the content kaetic, i did that before you replied. The self serve station is actually preferred by many workers there because they get to walk around and help customers, while in long lane your...

sorry guys, given some time to think i have figure some things out on my own. So i have decided to delete my post, but i since can't do that on my own, i have deleted the content instead, sorry for wasting anyone's time, thanks.

i isolated a lot of my friends because i never felt 'good enough' i kept judging myself and thought about how boring and useless i was. they would ask me out but i always say i'm in isolation and wanted to use that time to improve myself, but motivation was fleeting and discipline was something...

i think so, it makes sense since that's the fastest easiest place to go to distract yourself with youtube videos and stuff.

Thanks NHope, that's my plan :D Things are a lot better now thanks, i don't really care if she changes her shift or leaves the workplace entirely. Its over and i have found better things to focus on. Thanks for you reply.