Lol kitchen huh? Dear friend where do you get such ideas as these? Someone has to be a professional pee examiner considering you can't walk in a hospital without them prompting you to pee in a cup :)
I am sorry you had to experience that. I hate the feeling of having wasted my time on someone who turns out to be undeserving. I learned at a young age from my parents that people will always let you down. Then in high school I met this really great group of friends and started trusting people...