Recent content by Tiger lily

Made small talk with the guy, he just gave me a one word answer then walked away. Hmmmm

Guilt and shame root of unhapiness? i feel none of these the reasons for being unhappy are lonliness and a sence of unsettledness, how to do you get to guilt and shame?

Your making out like just because he's shy he will appreciate or be flattered by me liking him. I might not be the kind of girl he goes for.

I really do feel that the reason I am single now is due to not dating when I was younger, because if you get the dating out of the way when your young you go into relationships more comfortably when your older and have more confidence. I'm 25 and I always felt mature for my age and so never...

Yea, its hard to smile sometimes, i know I must smile to show interest but sometimes I cant bring it out because when he looks he doesn't smile either kinda just stares, so I scared Ill smile and he will just give me a blank look.

I find the rules of how to live a Celibate life quite strange, people who are celibate generally are due to choose, they don't follow strict rules as if each rule is such a chore if that is that case its just means they don't want to be celibate but are for the moment. Why constrain yourself to...

I don't want someone who will have anyone, I hope he will like me for who I am. I'm shy but I wont just go out with anyone who shows interest. Out of interest how did you get more confidence?

Yea maybe that's a good idea. For me its the thought of making friends aain from scratch. Just seems like ive wasted years at home holding onto the friends I had but they have all gradually moved away or got more invloved with their boyfriend. So I'm left with no friends and in a dull town. i...

I know that guys are attracted to confident girls, independant who are not overly clingy yet still affectionate. Is this still the case for shy guys? I'm guesing it would be , its just i am quite shy yet I want to ask a guy out who I know is much shyer than me, will he be put of by my shyness if...

Its a few years for me, when I lost love I found myself in a new place in my life aswell - no friends, realised work wasn't really enjoyable but with someone it was never obvious because I had them at the end of the day. 4 years on and I still haven't found my way back on track. Wandering...

Love pretty much screws your life up. I didn't even know what true happiness was til I found love, I was happy with being content, up til then was always happy but truely happy when I felt love. Now I cant even get back to feel content. Nothing seems to make me remotely happy, because the...

Thankyou very much Lonesome crow I will check this out. Thanks for your replies in general, I appreiate it.

I've had 5 years of lonliness, loosing friends and not making new ones, moving jobs yet still being unhappy with no social life in the area I've studied for. Can't give up my career just for a social life which would probably be in a very low paid job ( i hope that doesn't sound money orientated...

Yeah I hope so too..:) You have to keep on moving or you stay in the same place don't you! There are Billions of people on this planet, one of them is perfect for you and one of them is perfect for me also.. And in the meanwhile the ones who are not perfect can be good enough too ;) yea think...

yea I do see your point, but its like for example I like someone now and I think he likes me but the one downfall he has is that he seems to get very depressed frequently and talks very negativly which I need to help bring him up to a positive level, he talks about no meaning, which kinda gets...