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    I hate... that he loves me?

    Ceno, you're absolutely right to keep your standards high and not to give up on your dream of family with a guy you love, decent guys do exist. As for "the lunatic you actually are", try not to use that kind of self critical language. You're certainly not a "lunatic", you've had some tough...
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    The world is full of honeysuckle !!!!

    I agree with what the OP says, there is a huge amount of trash, clickbait and violence available on various platforms. So long as it gets clicks and the money rolls in, those responsible seem not to care what's going out there. It's the old TV/media censorship debate, except this time the...
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    Lonely with anxiety and depression

    Hello and welcome 😊
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    I miss my husband so much this afternoon

    Grief is a difficult thing to bear, and not something that has a timetable. It's perfectly natural for you to feel the way that you do, you have my deepest sympathy. It's the love and support of family and friends that really helps, do you have someone around who you can talk to and who could...
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    I hate... that he loves me?

    Ceno, you sound exactly like my wife. She had some troubles in her past, and even now she'll occasionally say that she doesn't believe my compliments, doesn't feel she deserves to be loved, feels dirty etc. It's a very difficult mindset to break out of, even with lots of love and encouragement...
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    Unattractive

    I'm English so perhaps we're missing something in translation here, over here we say dope, weed, skunk, ganja etc etc and it all means Marijuana. To the OP, whatever has happened to you and however unwanted you feel, using substances to make yourself feel better doesn't help in reality. In the...
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    Unattractive

    Rule one in all of this, stop with the drugs. Substances aren't helpful and there's a majority percentage who will avoid a dope smoker. Plus it's good for you to stop, your body and your mind. Worrying about your looks isn't helpful, you're not supposed to fancy yourself, someone else is...
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    New lonely member

    Welcome Kim. Don't despair about your time in life, I did that and it was a complete mistake. Got married in my late 30s, bought a house etc. Still time for all kinds of things to happen, and even if they don't then so what? Being single and having your freedoms is something to cherish in itself.
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    In hospital

    I'm a bit late to this thread, but wishing you all the best.
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    My art!💫

    These are brilliant! Keep on producing work. As an artist myself, I find the worst critic is me. It's the artist's lot in life to see the fault in their own work, honestly you have to trust the opinions of other people and just go for it.
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    confused about sexuality

    I echo what sunflower says, you don't have to change anything. If you're not into sex or whatever then so be it, nobody has to be.
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    32, friendless, virgin and call me autistic but there are things I totally fail to understand

    I think there are two good general rules to profile pics. Firstly, it's important that it doesn't look too much like a fashion shoot. There's something about an overly prepared shot that makes it look a bit staged, and it takes away the element of character that you can get with a genuine pic...
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    Artist's Block?

    You've heard of writer's block, well I appear to be suffering from artist's block. Usually love drawing and painting etc, but realized recently that I haven't done any artwork for months. I feel uninspired, as though art is somehow pointless, and that what I do isn't really of any consequence...
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    Bluer than blue today.

    I'm similar LG, want to go out and have a social life, but also fear socializing. Talk about counter intuitive.
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    I need advice/opinions.

    Well, that's a very difficult one. A son getting close to his dad is a good thing (usually), and having him around is bound to be an influence. That said, I can understand how it concerns you that he is picking up his dad's bad habits. An idea you'll probably hate, but have you considered...
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