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TheSkaFish
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^Not a woman here, or a geneticist for that matter, but I don't think you can do that. I think your genetics are too similar, and any kids you'd have could have serious genetic disorders that would result in a very bad quality of life.
CenotaphGirl
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I woulddd but im adopted so lmao not sure it counts... nothing gave me more joy than flirting with my cousins and being like... uhh I wasn't flirting with you... we're literally cousins thats gross lmao. It was just funny because they always paused like they wanted to say were not really cousins but it was getting too weird so they just walked away... good times... good times...
Claudia1794
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While I'm sure its not common it definitely isn't unheard of. I knew a guy who was seriously in love with his cousin but never acted on it for fear of rejection from her, fear of bodily harm from her brother, and fear of judgement from everyone else. I know that I wouldn't act on it but the heart wants what the heart wants. So, I agree that possible children should definitely not be in that equation.
Claudia1794
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Yes it was consensual. I was told I was over reacting when I attacked her and I was just a silly little sophomore in high school and they went to the same university. I didn't know what love was. She was and still is that person that wants what someone else has.And your sister just went along?
...so much for family comes first.
Hell no.
I think there's plenty of humans out there one can find without resorting to their own flesh n blood.. but that's me.
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I would have no problem doing that. I would marry my sister except she's a *****. I've never found a great match for me so I'm not elimating anybody. I can't have children by choice. So, the odd child thing wouldn't come into play.
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Hm. Not my favorite kind of person, no offense.
That's part of the things you don't do in my book. You don't cross the streams.
Lonely girl 28
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A breakdancer sounds more fun, entertaining.
Claudia1794
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Well it depends on their personality more than what they do. Then again I’m too old to be dating a person that would be in the age group for either of those so no matter their personality I’ll just watch them do what they do and find a man more my speed.
TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
The oldest active break dancer is 64. The oldest MMA fighter is like 47. So no, don't count yourself out, you have options in both categories
Claudia1794
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Would you go out with a guy 13 years younger? He’s been at me for a couple of months. I thought he was just being playful but he is serious. I don’t think there is anything wrong with it until I think about some chick 13 years older than my son and I’m like nope...can’t be that hypocritical person that I don’t like in others.The oldest active break dancer is 64. The oldest MMA fighter is like 47. So no, don't count yourself out, you have options in both categories
My opinion for what it's worth, if it's only the age gap that's stopping you, just bloody do it.
TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
If we had a connection and there was chemistry, I would probably give it a shot. It might work out, it might not, but you can't know unless you try, right?
Claudia1794
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This is the funny thing because I’ve asked in here several times and I only remember one response but then that question about mma got me thinking about him. He isn’t a fighter now but he used to box and he trains a couple boys, including my son, in the area. I think it’s a good sign that when we talk I feel my heart race a bit. He is adorable and funny and playful.
Give it atleast one try. You never know where it may take you.
Lonely girl 28
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I would for like at least one date. Never know about chemistry til one tries it.
Does your son like him as well? I mean, what would be his reaction if you two ended up dating? there's that part to consider..
but I'm sure you already thought about that..
Claudia1794
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Yeah he is ok with the idea of it but I don’t know how he’d act if I actually went out with him. I’ve been single for over 10 years so he has never experienced me even talking to a man. I’m more worried that my son may stop training with him if we go out and it’s nothing to it. It’s a lot to consider but the age difference was my first hurdle and I just don’t know about that. I’ll end up talking myself out of it and just keep being playful and fun with him.
