Anything specific that turns you on or off in a potential partner?

mari1969 said:

Hunters, animal abusers

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I suppose that would be a turn-off?

Yes, sorry I forgot to put turn off

mari1969 said:

Hunters...

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I find it ironic when non-vegetarians say this. Depending on country certain introduced species can be a serious threat to the native ecology. It's either allow hunting or the environmental agency has to drop poison (meaning slower and more painful deaths for the animals).

ardour said:

I find it ironic when non-vegetarians say this. Depending on country certain introduced species can be a serious threat to the native ecology. It's either allow hunting or the environmental agency has to drop poison (meaning slower and more painful deaths for the animals).

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Depends on what kind of hunting though - I'm a non-vegetarian and I'm against trophy-hunting. The OP didn't specify what kind of hunting.

ringwood said:

Depends on what kind of hunting though - I'm a non-vegetarian and I'm against trophy-hunting. The OP didn't specify what kind of hunting.

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Agreed. I understand population control, but people 'trophy-hunting is cruel. Deer, alligators, even rabbits and squirrel, the people I know eat everything they kill.

Turn On: Dressed very professionally in a woman's business suit.

Turn Off: Dressed like a guy.

well to be honest I have many turn ons when it comes to women if I had to pick one though I like it when a woman comes up to me and is not afraid to introduce herself or admit that she is attracted to me it's a turn on

turn off hmm I guess would be her constantly trying to make me fight others over her (when she intentionally flirts with every attractive male that catches her eye if we are in a relationship, if it's nothing serious and we are friends then its ok) when I was in a serious relationship with a bisexual female my first love and we were taking a break we used to be comfortable enough to end say " hey that girl or that guy looks like he/she is your type or hot". but what do I know that relationship didn't last after 5-6 years

Turn offs: Lying, arrogance, lack of care and empathy, anyone who thinks they know everything just because they watched a youtube video or someone on ticktok told them so. People who can't accept different likes/dislikes and different opinions ... no, I am not very interested in music, but I also don't expect everyone to be enthralled by the Byzantine Empire like I am. People who don't listen. Smokers. If they expect me to do ALL the chasing. People who think that just because I am autistic, lonely, and inexperienced, that they can bully and try to take advantage of me.

Turn ons: They have to show an interest in me. Being autistic, I might not pick up on all the signals. Genuine interest. Patience. A willingness to try new things. Reading/movies, especially fantasy and sci-fi. Artistic people.

Turn on: naked.
Turn off: not breathing.

ringwood said:

Depends on what kind of hunting though - I'm a non-vegetarian and I'm against trophy-hunting. The OP didn't specify what kind of hunting.

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Trophy hunting. Kill just for pleasure to kill.

mari1969 said:

Trophy hunting. Kill just for pleasure to kill.

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Yes, I think it is horrible to kill for fun, especially if they are endangered species.

Turn On: Believes I'm attractive
Turn Off: They realize the truth.

mari1969 said:

Trophy hunting. Kill just for pleasure to kill.

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How is buying some steak or chicken from the supermarket better? Someone who does this regularly is contributing to more animal suffering than someone who hunts occasionally, even for "sadistic" reasons. Wild animals aren't bred for that purpose or kept in awful circumstances.

Tfranklinyo said:

I defiantly read and understood the original post.

Turn off.

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Reading... SUCH a turn on! LOLOLOL

Just some history books I have

Tfranklinyo said:

Just some history books I have
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very nice

Insecurity about themselve,turn off,turn on great personality

Yep...Smoking cigarettes is turn on. I love it. Its sexy to me. Its the way a man holds his cigarette, raise it to his lips, hollows out his cheeks pulling on it, then wait...exhale. All the focus is on hands and lips. Oh and if he's the type to let it rest on his lip as he does something else with his hands all the better. I watch darting my eyes back and forth between lips and hands. Yep...total turn on.
Turn off is a man who stands or walks folded into himself. Head down, shoulders slouched, and arms wrapped in front of him as if he is hugging himself. Lack of confidence is not appealing. Oh and someone who can't walk by his reflection without taking a peak. That's a major turn off.

Sorry but like is anyone, aside from like predators, attracted to people who hate themselves? Like is that really a unique turn off? Your thought isn't like poor guy I wonder what he's going through? It's like nah, nope, wouldn't fresia him.

Well you don't know if people hate themselves until you get to know them. I was talking about things that attract my attention that I think is sexy. If a guy smokes and carries himself a certain way and shows interest in me then I would be willing to get to know him. If he has insecurities but I liked him and was attracted to him then yes I would still be interested. But most people don't walk around saying hey how are you I hate myself you want to go out?