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  1. VanillaCreme

    I Must Be A Creep

    Live in SC, on the east coast. But I was born and raised in south Jersey. Not exactly a city slicker, but to my redneck, country guy, he said I was more city than I realize. Here's the kicker for me - I absolutely live by the notion of minding my business. I don't feel like I'm inviting at all...
  2. VanillaCreme

    I Must Be A Creep

    Welp, when you figure out, let me in on the slide. Because in my 34 years on this rotating ball of coagulated dust and water, I've never exactly cared to make friends, and I get people wanting to tell me their life story. At one point, I started asking if I had a sign on me somewhere.
  3. VanillaCreme

    I Must Be A Creep

    Can I take a class somewhere? Because people tend to gravitate towards me, tell me their whole life story and what their grandpappy did in 1882. I can't even tell someone they smell nice without them telling me an extensive story that no one asked for. Trust me, it's not greener over on this...
  4. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    It was weird not actually telling you happy birthday. Or poking fun at the fact that you waited to be born on your mom's busiest day. I miss you.
  5. VanillaCreme

    What drives you crazy

    People who intentionally misunderstand almost everything that's said to them. No, they didn't say that, and the fact that that was the conclusion you came to shows that you were intentionally not listening either. I also have no intention of putting myself in a conversation where I'm constantly...
  6. VanillaCreme

    Can't stop bringing up ugly experiences from the past and it's ruining my social life

    Men aren't the only ones who feel like they need to shut up. It literally took someone that I loved so much dying for me to even tell anyone else how much I was struggling with life. People that I'm close to and talked to almost daily. Took death for me to finally speak up for myself. You can't...
  7. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    I know I'm just trying to distract myself. It's not really working, but I'm trying.
  8. VanillaCreme

    What are you listening to?

  9. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    I absolutely believe my dog can also tell time. Most days at exactly 5 on the dot, she's whining, and the thing is, she adjusts to the daylights saving time. What I'm thinking now is the clear fact that I didn't realize how much I'd actually miss talking to someone every day. I don't know if...
  10. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    I'ma need you to go on ahead and do me a favor... Just remove that expiration date on that salt.
  11. VanillaCreme

    Being forever single

    Absolutely. I always say that compatibility is very important. Love isn't enough sometimes.
  12. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    I love me a nerd. I miss mine.
  13. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    I'm guessing it's almost like those "don't meet your heroes" type things. Not bad, but slightly annoying.
  14. VanillaCreme

    My friends disappearance

    I think someone should tell you that it's not you. When people distance themselves, it's because of a reason they determined. However, if you really want to do something differently, try to think of what you actually do. If they're expressing that you may be a burden to them, think about if...
  15. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    You know, I never think of that song when I hear the word "firefly" because I have shoveled Breaking Benjamin into my mind for **** 20 years now.
  16. VanillaCreme

    Falling out with people over your opinions.

    I don't support the whole BLM thing. It's just a bunch of people who hate on anyone that doesn't want to fall into their narrative. That's not a real movement. But I'm at a point in my life where I don't care who wants to agree or disagree with me. Think whatever, it doesn't matter to me, and...
  17. VanillaCreme

    Why women always rejected me

    I tend to believe that rejection is God's protection, and I've heard quite a bit that rejection is God's redirection. Do what works for you, I suppose.
  18. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    Stuck between wanting to watch some videos at the computer or staying under the warm blanket. It's cold and the sliding door hasn't even been open.
  19. VanillaCreme

    Signs you got over text someone wasnt interested in you.

    I mean, I can't actually tell any of y'all to stop anymore, but, I suggest you guys stop. Replying to them won't make it any better.
  20. VanillaCreme

    Signs you got over text someone wasnt interested in you.

    Not only do you keep it going, but you honestly started the whole back and forth by posting obnoxious views on genders. Sorry, but people are going to point out silly generalizations. If you don't want people to point out those generalizations, then you shouldn't post them. You can't honestly...