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  1. LonelySutton

    I'm so tried sometimes with everything

    Not to harp on this but I think you will have to consider going back on your pledge and either putting her in a nursing home or some sort of a assisted living.  It won't get better.  It isn't also completely a selfish or not issue. At a certain point you won't be able to handle the situation. ...
  2. LonelySutton

    What are you walking away from 2016 with?

    Cripes. I remember having to care of my dad who wasn't all there (along with mom) and it is a hell that I wouldn't wish on anyone. Is there any reason she isn't in a nursing home?   You shouldn't be consigned to that.  My mom was similarly obnoxious about not letting anyone in to help then...
  3. LonelySutton

    Does your job have some effect on your loneliness?

    Another problem I have is that I am not really allowed to talk about my work. I suppose I could with people on a one on one basis but I can't post what happens on facebook... I can't really discuss it anyplace online unless in vague terms and if I do talk with someone outside of work I risk THEM...
  4. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    Everyone has assumed that the wife was "innocent" -- completely not the case. That is on those who assume facts not in evidence. If you and your religious belief think its wrong to hate someone, that is your belief. I myself don't agree and I think we have spun back too far on the "don't...
  5. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    He said he looked up my posting history and that I suffered from excessive regard. That is called an "insult".  That is an unprovoked "attack" and he should go back to his hole and stop popping out to take cheap shots.   When you respond to someone who attacks you first that is called "self...
  6. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    Thank you Dr. Ardour...  Now go back to your hole.
  7. LonelySutton

    TV series: what to watch next?

    "Dexter" just seasons 1-5. I find the pilot of that show darn near perfect.
  8. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    Me?  as Norman Bates likes to say... I wouldn't hurt a fly. :)    Much..
  9. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    Sorry to say --- >>>> "acting". To this day there are a lot of people I hate for not helping me when I needed it and will drop a dime on who think I am their BFF.   Recently I discovered that my bully's wife is sick and I asked about her condition to a friend and she told me *not good*  and I...
  10. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    Because HR is stupid and needs to do things to justify their job. In general HR probably would prefer to not deal with bad behavior.  But make no mistake... because I am tired of seeing it...hostile work environment alone is NOT illegal. Hostile work environment is a term used with regard to...
  11. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    I am sorry Alex... I disagree completely. Hostile work environment is not a basis for a law suit. Hostile work environment is ONLY connected to sexual harassment. At least in the US. If your friend lucked out doing this. She lucked out. But I have TONS Of law suits in front of me that are...
  12. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    Well it depends on what you did. My enablers would find out they did something wrong and trump up a mistake I supposedly made so that there could be a blow up and then they would slip in that they made an error too. When I wanted to not show up to their parties (which no one wanted to attend)...
  13. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    I think it is far worse when you are trapped in the circumstances were you have to get poked. I used to work with a bully and the thing was... all the people that worked with me, saw that the way to gain favor and keep the bully off them, was to throw me under the bus... or, trump up some sort...
  14. LonelySutton

    Has anyone ever had bullies at work?

    I was bullied for 10 years. We both work in the same place but I no longer work for him. I go to lunch every day at 11 AM to miss him in the cafeteria and I asked my bosses to "divorce" me from any association with him. They did. My work is suburb. Now he can't get to me so he helps a colleague...
  15. LonelySutton

    Its my birthday!

    Hi: Thanks the well wishes. But I was trying to be funny more than sad. I want you all to know that I had a banner b-day. I received: - 4 e-mails from dentists I haven't used in years. - 3 e-mails from retailers - 4 e-mails from on line retailers - 3 e-mails from random message boards or...
  16. LonelySutton

    Its my birthday!

     Went to the store this weekend to get my 1/2 cake. The girl taking the groceries out the car goes.. are you having a party this weekend? I forgot and say, no. And she goes,  oh just eating that cake all by yourself huh? ** smile and laugh because she thought it was a too funny joke** followed...
  17. LonelySutton

    Anyone here asexual?

    LOL!
  18. LonelySutton

    Anyone here asexual?

    This guy is persuasive.  http://www.asexualityarchive.com I am about 85% what this guy talks about. And I think it could be a good reference for people who are just alone. But for me I do have sexual desire but I mean I find it has to be really good for me to be interested and most times it...
  19. LonelySutton

    how does a single 35 year old woman meet someone? advice?

    And 6 they can't handle the truth.
  20. LonelySutton

    how does a single 35 year old woman meet someone? advice?

    Not my cup of tea. In my experience: The elderly are fixed and inflexible often, sad to say, because of drugs that they are on. Usually like cholesterol meds make them forgetful and crazy.  Typically, they like to tell you what to do.  Usually they need to use you for things like not...
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