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    Great book about loneliness

    The premise is very cool. I loved how the writer made this into a high concept story. I heard that the next book will be out by the summer.
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    Great book about loneliness

    I bought this the other day and it's really put me in high spirits. I believe that it really goes into what it's like to be lonely in the world. The writer did a great job on conveying each and every character's existential loneliness. It's fun, dark, romantic and heart arming.  It's a series...
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    Do normal people enjoy bullying/alienating loners?

    I think people do that in high school. But after the age of 18 most people don't do that. The only people who do this are very insecure.
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    A Closer Look at Finding Nemo

    I started doing some movie reviews on YouTube, mostly older films. Today, I took a closer look at Finding Nemo in tribute to Finding Dory.
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    Two shorts that I made

    Hey everyone, I just wanted to share some things that I have made. I wrote, produced, directed, and starred in both. Co composed one. The first is called Elsewhere. It's the last short I made (shot last summer). I made this with a shoestring budget. It's about a 21 year old Sprint car driver...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    I have a few questions for the women here #1: If you found out that the guy that you are with or an ex used pick up to get you, how would you feel? #2: If a guy wants to improve his dating outlook and you think pick up is so wrong what would to tell him to do? (I have some ideas myself). #3: Do...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Easy For me there were several positives. I never treated women like crap and I am sure there are people who got into it who don't either. I've never been into that. In fact I have to say that I've gotten my feelings hurt more than I've hurt any women (I've slept with women who I've called...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Good for you. I never insinuated that anyone here was weak minded. Last time I checked, pick up was something created for men trying to get women, so in fact one could say that this subject simply wasn't for you at the start? And you seem against the idea of pick up to begin with, so your...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Of course I've formed my own opinion on the matter. It's not from reading one book. It's from reading several books, several articles, going out there testing this stuff myself (that's a big part of pick up is testing this stuff out yourself). If it appeared as though I was talking in...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    It's not a bad thing that women are more emotional than men. Women have more emotional intelligence and grow emotionally quicker than men. And the end of the day while you do not want your emotions to rule you, you want to guide yourself with emotions, not logic to what you want in life.
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Lady: Read the title and you will get your answer. TheRealCallie: Go look this stuff up yourself. There are plenty of books and articles written on this and subjects like this. I have nothing to prove to you. I didn't make this up. It's human nature. And if you can't accept that then that...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Vanilla: If you believe that to be the case then it will be. I am getting into law of attraction stuff here (it's not 100% like that, but kinda like that). But I truly do believe that thoughts become things. Understand, if you go to work and you are sales person and believe that you could...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Vanilla: You are kinda getting it. By visualizing yourself as who you want to be you start taking those steps to become that person. Then it becomes reality. Lady: These are not assumptions. Most things that I have said are just behaviors that people tend to share. If you are upset by that...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Vanilla: Be your ideal self. If you tell most guys to be themselves they will continue to do the same things that will make them suck at life. Most people do not realize when someone says be yourself they me to be who you want to be. Also to be authentic.
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Vanilla: Well of course everyone is unique in their own ways. But as humans we are all the same in a lot of ways. Most of the things in life that we think are personal to us have been experienced by everyone. I believe that the majority of women to respond similarly to certain types of...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Easy PUA is a cult. Like all cults there are good qualities to it. Good: makes you go out and take action, forces you to look at yourself in an honest way, forces you to become more self aware, is a gateway to further and more real self development, you become more self reliant, you get into...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    You say this is self victimizing behavior yet you are a member to this forum? If you really did believe this then you wouldn't be here right now. And you wouldn't have posted in that thread "are you a loner or lonely." And you said that you are basically apart of mgtow (basically men who have...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Well the thing is that like I said before I got into pick up (keep in mind that I am not in that community anymore) my thinking was more along the lines of everyone else. I didn't really judge pick up though good or bad. But I was more inclined to see it as "silly." But now after going...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Vanilla : Like I said there are no rules, it was a wrong choice of words on my part. But there are behaviors patterns that are very common. It's not that I won't see from the other side: I've been on the other side. I know why everyone who is against this way of this nking is. It breaks what...
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    Anyone here ever done pick up?

    Lady: Yeah this is true. Rodent: Perhaps. But everyone gets lonely. Vanilla: Correct there are no rules so wrong choice of words there. But I can safely say that this is how things are. Not to toot my own horn. But I've known a lot of women. I can safely say that most of them fit into...
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