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  1. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - just a carousel of people you meet - still back at square one

    @ Michael2, thanks for your feedback. Yes, I'm in my mid 30s, still single, and it gets depressing and sad at times when I'm home. It's worse for me because I moved away from home, away from parents, and my former friends at home. This was for a job opportunity that was too good to pass up. A...
  2. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - just a carousel of people you meet - still back at square one

    @ BrokenMan, pardon me, I forgot all about this thread of mine. Yeah, well, I have done online dating, and while most of the girls either didn't want to continue on, or I was not interested in them, I still send text messages to two of them. One of them is the girl who copped out and texted me...
  3. GrayAndLonesome

    Do you ever think that maybe you are better off alone?

    Haha, you don't really think of your future, do you? Good luck, lonely amy! Right now you can walk, talk, and do daily tasks. When you get old, you will need somebody to take you to the bathroom, and while staff in the nursing homes (if you even live that long, LOL!) are helpful, there are...
  4. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    ^^ carry on, maybe you should STFU. lol   :) Thank you, and God bless you, SofiasMami. It's a hard journey, especially with online dating and even meeting women in real life. I also relocated to a new area (for my job), away from home, away from parents and former friends. It gets very...
  5. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    ^^ the f--k is this? Very stupid statement.
  6. GrayAndLonesome

    Do you ever think that maybe you are better off alone?

    HELLL NOOOO!!! I am never ever better off alone. No effing way! Roy, listen, you need to pick up your game and somehow go online, do some dating, or go out to the shopping mall and order some food and chat with some of the female workers. How old are you, BTW? Alright, while I don't make a...
  7. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    Well, it depends on your definition of a date. For me, I consider face-to-face meetups a date. So for example, I have sent messages to Jenny on a dating website, and after x-number of messages, I decide to give her my phone number to text. When I get her full name, I do a little bit of...
  8. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    @TheSkaFish. Yeah, unfortunately, online dating is all about looks, and if you don't fit the typical American cookie-cutter male looks, then you will not get any responses, or very little responses. For me, although I do complain of discrimination (because I'm an Asian male) in online and even...
  9. GrayAndLonesome

    Masturbation

    My opinion of masturbation is that too much, excess is bad for your health and your love life. You guys should really really try to get rid of this stupid habit. I will be honest and be brave and state that I used to do this honeysuckle when I was a teenager up until my late college years. All you...
  10. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - just a carousel of people you meet - still back at square one

    ^^ Listen, VanillaCreme. When you ADD UP all the dates and meet-ups I have been on, the lunch and dinners come out to be around $600.00. That adds MORE money to my regular monthly credit card bills that I have been paying prior to starting online dating. Yeah, I don't have to do online...
  11. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - just a carousel of people you meet - still back at square one

    No, I blame my race and sex when it comes to women responding to my messages on dating websites. It's sad truth here in the US, which you and Callie fail to understand. I know you're trying to induce "positive thinking" into me. But after countless numbers, thousands of emails and personal...
  12. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    Blah blah blah. Fine, be like that. LMFAO!!!
  13. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    @ Nwahs, No no, you're right on the dot, bro. F--k platonic relatonships. I've been in two of those relationship, none of them lasted past seven months. One was with a girl I was set up with through mom's friend. All we did was eat lunch or dinner together, go to movies together. She got...
  14. GrayAndLonesome

    Been told that I will find someone when I'm not looking

    So true, and if you've read my post, I echo the same sentiment you have about this cheesy statement. Love never found me, nor did it find you, or others who also post here at ALL. Each year goes by, I was 28 years old when my grandma told me that phrase, this was almost seven years ago. Same...
  15. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    @ TheSkaFish. Hahah, I actually did talk about racial issues regarding dating when meeting up with my female friend (no, this is a friend I already knew before I started online dating, and met her at a meet up event, but I'm not "romantically" attracted to her - she's just a friend) last week...
  16. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    ^^ can you show me links to those articles that you claim to have viewed in your online search? No, you're wrong. There is clearly discrimination against Asian men when it comes to dating in the US. It's because of the advertisements and movies that sexualizes Asian females, and show them...
  17. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - just a carousel of people you meet - still back at square one

    I have been using online dating, paid membership since November of last year. I have been using match.com and Zoosk. Zoosk was a waste of money, because you have to pay for extra coins to see if another member viewed your message. Out of Zoosk, I only got ONE freaking face-to-face date meetup...
  18. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    You are one clue-less lady. Read some of these articles, and then you will know the kind of crap that I have to go through with dating in the US. Online dating favors white men, Asian WOMEN No eHarmoney with Asian men I even have to deal with ******** women from my own racial background who...
  19. GrayAndLonesome

    When You Send a message to people on dating sites, do you prefer they ignore you or..

    For me, I prefer that the girl/woman respond to my message and state that she's not interested in me because she has looked at the information in my profile, and feel that us two are not good matches. Or something of that nature. I hate it when I log into my OLD account, look at list of emails...
  20. GrayAndLonesome

    Online dating - meeting up with different girls - is this okay?

    @ TheSkaFish - I actually don't talk about racial issues in dating when I attend these face-to-face dates or meet up with women I have met on online dating sites. I mainly talk about my job, my career goals, where I'm originally from, and also ask her questions about her life, her goals for...
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