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Haha, I wish there was more people in the world like you Callie

For as long as I can remember I've suffered from blushing. It can be triggered by the smallest thing I. E making eye contact with a girl, talking to more than 1 person. It can be quite embarrasing to be honest and it makes me shy away from some social situations. But i was just wondering if...

Hey Itgolt, welcome to the forum. Maybe when she said "we have 10 years of diference im sure there are things you can tell me" you could of told her stories of the past not exactly personal stories so to say but ones like the days of dial up Internet for example. Not sure if that helps or would...

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Hey Morrow, Sorry to hear youve had a similar experience, seems it's quite a common occurence. Scary to know there is that many likeminded girls out there, but comforting to know I'm not alone out there at the same time. Haha the huge eraser made me chuckle, but I can see myself using that...

Wow thanks, possibly some of the best if not thee best advice I've ever recieved, you dont happen to do this sort of thing as a profession by any chance?    I already had a few routines in place ive been working on recently and will continue to focus on these. I was never one to be able to fool...

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Hi Skyless,  Thank you for your reply. Im guessing your questions there are rhetorical and I did find they were the very questions I was asking myself before I cut contact.  Unfortunately I can now see the damage I've caused to my self esteem and way of thinking. Hopefully now I can slowly...

Hey Roy, Yeah I agree with you on that, very destructive indeed.  Sorry to hear youve had a similar experience, that must of been hard on you (especially the marriage part). A positive I suppose that she at least feels remorse for her actions. And yeah I may of learnt it the hard way but it's...

Hey Rainbow. Good to hear from you again, glad you're feeling better. If like me, you bottle it all up, we all have those days where it all feels abit too much. Keep us updated! And take it easy

Thank you for your replies. I guess i always blamed myself for losing her interest, crediting it to likes of being too boring, not being good looking enough etc etc. This is why I've not tried to initate another relationship with anyone else. Think I'm finally coming to terms with the fact...

Bare with me here as this is something I haven't actually shared with anyone and is deeply embarrassing for me but I need it off my chest I guess so here goes. Almost 4 years ago I was led on by a girl that I worked with. When I first saw her I thought wow, but I kept my distance as she had a...

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It was just a run of the of the mill retail job really, started when I was young and naive. I didn't enjoy it but had a good laugh with the staff there. See that's the question, I've never been one to know my calling in life. I wouldn't mind something hands on like a gardening/landscaping job...

Different shift isn't a possibility unfortunately. Im in the U.K and by going from what you've stated we operate quite diffdifferently here. Thanks for your time though, much appreciated

I'd hope so. The job I had for 7years before this i worked with people my own age and it really helped to bring me out my shell.  Its a storeman job I. E warehouse and customer service. Being over 25 any courses I would have to pay for and tbh I don't really know what I would want to do

I hate my job, it makes me miserble. I'm the youngest at 26, the next being 40 and the rest are in their 50's.  I work 8-5 Mon-Fri, the trouble is from about 12 there is very little to do. I'm practically stood in silence with my colleague(55yrs old). Im a very shy and reserved person with not...

Hey there.  I hope you feel a little better after writing down your thoughts/sharing them. You sound like you have plenty to offer a woman, although it does sound extremely difficult to find one in your current situation. I don't know what advice I can offer for that and I do apologise. You...

I like to think Tinder like all dating sites/apps, has more men to woman using said site/app. So the girls will have to do a lot more swiping to discover your profile. So don't get too disheartened. It could be very few girls have actually had the chance to swipe your profile. Goodluck on your...