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Sweet. I wish my novio would write this way about me. ❤️❤️❤️

I would say it depends on how she said she was busy. If someone asked me out and I was busy, but was really into the guy, I would make sure to say maybe in a couple weeks (or some other timeframe). If I were interested but not Gaga, I'd say maybe another time. Also how far apart did you ask...

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What a rollercoaster. First the angst of whether to go at all, and then the guy I visited gives me the hot and cold. One day we are having great conversation and a real connection, and the next day he completely disengages and spends hours looking at soccer videos on his phone, leaving me...

It is so funny, I was always the good kid in the family and never experienced the not so nice, judgmental person I'm seeing now. I know now what my sister and nephew have been through all their lives. Having a nice time but the evenings are looonnneeelllyyyy. My friend works till 11 pm and I...

I'm here and all is good. Like reallllllyyyy good! All the angst was for naught.

Booked and paid. 😟 I am in the airport. I'll just have to make the best of it.

Thanks. I was so looking forward to this trip and I just can't get that feeling back now. I guess I just keep trying 😢 I'm almost tempted to bag the trip and stay home.

Thanks Callie that is exactly the mindset I had up until this morning's conversation with Mom. I just want to go and have a good time. what is the harm? I can live with it being partly about a green card, because i think he likes me for other reasons as well. she seems to imply there could...

What is it with mothers and the ability to do this in an instant... I met a foreign guy while on vacation, we hit it off and he asked me to come back and visit.  Completely out of character for me but I am going.  Yes maybe he does want a green card, but I believe it is also possible that he...

Thanks you guys. Yes I really should lose the weight for my health. The thing that frustrates me is having to put my relationship/sexual hopes aside until I've made a good bit of progress, which means probably 8-9 months anyway. I don't know if I'll be able to shake the body image thing...

It sounds similar to the rejection therapy I was going to try. The goal is to have some person tell you no every single day. You can ask anything as long as you get a no from someone once a day. Now I just get that through online dating. 😳

Does it sometimes work? When I was younger a friend and I would get those obnoxious comments on the street and we wondered. Are there actually girls that respond? Ever? We didn't know any.

Because.....? What are you worried will happen? I'm actually probably safer than with someone here. He has huge incentive to keep me safe and happy with him if he thinks I am a ticket off the island. I believe it is partly that and also believe he actually likes me.

O  I think I've come to the sad conclusion that unless I lose the extra 50 lb. I am carrying, I am just going to stay lonely.   I found a guy on an online dating site that reads perfect for me.  Into authentic cultures, third world travel, passion for helping others.  I wrote him and he...

I understand completely too. For some reason it is hard to give up some of these online/phone things, especially if you are bored, depressed and lonely.. but if she scares you, you really should stop. I'm sure you know that already.....

I'm not sure what anyone can do. I do hope you get out of your situation. I have a friend in a similar situation but without even the job skills, and unless I marry him he can't leave. Especially with the new administration here in the US.

I used to blush at everything. So now if someone blushes I pretend not to notice. Although actually I think it is kind of cute.

I stupidly paid for a Match.com membership but there I get nothing of interest. Having much better luck on the free POF and OKCupid.

Sorry can't help you with books. I only learned from real life. Good luck and let us know your progress. 😀