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Well I can't give a specific example. I would read the person's profile to see what their interests are in and then message them by saying some form of 'Hello/Hi/Hey/What's up/How's it going/.....etc and then point out I noticed a certain thing I see they are interested in and try to maybe ask a...

This thread has become a bit confusing. I'm going to take a stab at trying to figure out your dilemma though.... So basically you are saying that with Online Dating/Texting/Phone calls... you feel this way: 1) If someone is not interested in you AT ALL, you would prefer to not get a message...

I kind of want to echo this view. I'm not saying I'm an expert but I gave about as good and clear advice as possible earlier. The scenario I laid out is what works far better than 'cat-calling'. I also want to say that I assumed the advice was needed for actually approaching and meeting a woman...

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I know you're right about this. No amount of logic will help me here. As much as it goes against my nature I've got to try and stop the gears turning in my mind. I will never figure out or solve this problem. I've got to just close the book and do other things until I forget about the book and...

  I straight up just busted out with a quick laugh when I read this.....like a cackle!! :D Then I saw that there IS such a thread!!! Not laughing AT anyone... it was just the surprise that made me laugh and caught me off guard. Now I must read some of that thread to satisfy my curiosity...lol

'Pickup lines' that have ANY kind of compliment based on physical appearance are not going to be received well by most women. Not as an totally cold icebreaker anyway. They get an onslaught of that kind of stuff from 'bro dudes' ALL the time. They have heard everything you could possibly come up...

I'm starting to lean towards this line of thinking. 9 years ago when I was roughly 29 about to turn 30 I just said to myself "I'm Done" with regards to romantic relationships/dating/hookups. I went into complete retirement from interacting with the opposite sex other than general daily...

I agree. But it's part of my personality. My mind won't let go of unsolved mysteries and puzzles. I LOVE Mathematics and working with equations or anything puzzle like and taking the pieces and working through them to arrive at the clear solution/answer. This puzzle is social/personal in nature...

Quick Update: My Ex just called my phone about 45 mins ago. I had walked out of the room just minutes before to go brush my teeth and missed hearing my phone ring by 1 minute. I don't know whether to feel frustrated that I missed that call or glad to have missed the temptation to answer...

Very wise words and also very helpful and constructive in a positive way. Thank you very much Amy. Peace and understanding is what I'm mostly after but if nothing else I will take peace in abundance. Thank you to everyone who's been showing me kindness and support. I even appreciate the tough...

I would never try to imply that I'm 'perfect'. I'm human. I have quirks like anyone. But I didn't do anything that would even remotely justify her actions. I'm not 'at fault'. Not even 1%. I reached out to her over and over and over to TRY an talk like adults on the phone to work through any...

I'm sorry but (and not to be rude) you are flat wrong in this instance. Nothing about what she did is my fault. I did everything a person can do to show Love and support. I tried to be the best Boyfriend I could be to her. I Loved her unconditionally and was willing to do anything to be there...

I was willing to give HIM the benefit of the doubt even AFTER I heard she stayed with him for multiple days. I waited to talk to him on the phone before I totally jumped to conclusions in spite of MANY people saying to me.."Dude....they hooked up...."But his actions were a little suspicious too...

I didn't want her going to Texas period. But if she was determined to go I'd rather her rent some place to stay or stay with friends she has there that are exclusive to her that I don't even know. It's wrong to shack up with MY friend that is the same sex she is attracted too. That's a line you...

The facts are she pursued me...HARD and very aggressively with tenacity. Made reckless statements/vows with conviction to me about being her twin flame soulmate, future husband, father of her children and that she loved me more than anyone ever. She even randomly said for no reason that if I was...

Yeah.......it's all a HOT MESS now. Last night out of my two friends that are married together, the wife called me and talked to me for 3 hours. I'll call her 'L.M.' to make the next part less confusing. She(L.M.) said that my Ex-Gf contacted her through a FB pm saying that the Texas guy...

[Update] Oh my goodness I got the most incredible closure last night!!! I talked to my guy friend in Texas for 2 HOURS last night. The 1st 30 minutes was me just talking to him about our common interests/hobbies and friendship in general like any one of our normal calls before. He was behaving...

Thanks for the input. Yeah she's definitely my Ex-GF now. Plus I agree that she had some type of personality disorder. There's just no way a 36 year old women could be this flaky and something mental not be going on. To go from being nuclear hot with me for over a year to ice cold like a glacier...

Hey guys I just wanted to clear up one detail that has been misinterpreted somewhere. She was in Texas for One week not Two weeks. Probably insignificant but I wanted to clear that up. She was supposed to be there 6-7 days traveling across TX to see about 6 different people and saying at each...