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Sounds like a nice story. :)

Haven't posted for a while. Haven't had motivation. Barely existing here, with chronic illness. Barely have energy to have some 'life'. And whenever I take the big effort and go out somewhere to "socialize", I feel completely alien and completely detached from the world and society. Other...

To be pedantic, "rude nice guy" sounds like an oxymoron. :)

I don't say everyone is like that, but there are certainly 'rude tough guys' as well. Maybe a better expression than 'tough' should be used, to avoid misunderstanding.

I have realized that I can't 'disprove my limitations'. Almost all men are stronger than me. No point to even contemplate beating anyone up, lol. The best I can do is just adapt, - or if necessary hide myself from the harsh world, and completely mind my own business. I have had to learn to...

That's what I feel too. People are very different. I keep a very open mind and am not going to reject someone based on first sight. I am curious and would like to find out whether "we" could make it work. If I would use the 'excuse' that people use on me - that I am "too different", then -...

I agree. From purely physical point of view most young women are attractive in my view. But that's not the point and it doesn't tell anything about, who they really are deep down.

There are different perspectives on this. Personally I'd love it if I was liked by someone. I imagine it would be a pretty good feeling if I am genuinely loved by someone, who wants to be with me? And it is no joke, and she really wants that? Well, I don't know, what it really feels like, but I...

Good luck then. :D

Well, the older we get, the less attractive we get too. :D So it makes sense. Smaller and smaller pool to choose from. In the end everyone's "pickiness" depends on how attractive that person is. Hence the advices here. Someone, who is very attractive, is of course very picky. Because the choice...

I don't dispute that.

It can be hard to relate to very different matters. However, I just remembered the right word for it - ignorance. Even if you don't understand the issue, never be ignorant about it. Once a wise man said - "ignorance is the root of all evil". And I am inclined to think there is some real point...

The biggest shame is that the world is so unequal that some people are such, who everyone (well, at least most) want to fresia, and some are such, who nobody ever wants to touch with a barge-pole. :( It is like that everywhere in life. Some people are incredibly rich, while some are filthy poor...

It's true though that plenty of given reasons are not convincing in a sense. It feels like they are often a bit made up to cover some deeper feeling, what does she really see in me, or doesn't see. Of course I am not a female, so I don't really know, how do they view the world and how do they...

Welcome :) Don't worry. I'm 31 and still lonely. :P So you can take a lot more loneliness than that and eventually adapt to it. :) Okay, this aside. Jobless? You aren't even out of school yet, so early to worry about it. :) Anxiety is a concern. I don't know, what can be done in medical...

By the way, Osiris. I wanted to add that you are doing pretty well if you dance well and can attract girls to dance with you pretty much at first sight. Many men can't do that.

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Thanks, Richard. To give some insight about my calm life. Then yes, I have been pretty cautious in my decisions. I don't go to many places or do many things, but where I go I really feel that now that's the thing I need to do. To put in perspective - while in the same timeframe other people...

I don't know. For me it is very hard to make the most out of one evening. I mean, how long does it last? A few hours perhaps. It is really challenging. People barely know each other. So don't exactly know, what to talk about, etc. It takes a lot of adapting. For me the best thing I could do...

To stay on topic, I thought German women adored Hitler. :P The same applies to other big historic leaders by the way. In any case, in no way I would try to put any of the dictators (past or present) on a pedestal. They are/were all narcissistic egomaniacs. But this means they had the strength...