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I am sorry, Fay, this is a tough situation. But there are tougher marriages that survived and healed. It is so easy to advice to leave your spouse but many people end up in a cycle of finding someone, then leaving, and so on, realizing later that they might have been better off working hard on...

Sometimes changes in life are forced upon us and there is nothing we can do with the new situation. Accepting this new reality will help you better to move one. Then be grateful for what you still have, you said your finances are quite okay. Being thankful for little things can help you get over...

I know that you just want to vent and I do feel bad for your situation. I don’t know what to say to you other than there’s a book that helped a good friend of mine a lot. It is called Boundaries by Henry Cloud at http://bit.ly/2dm0y10. Go to the website and read the summary, you might find it...

Having a problematic relationship while you are working on your struggles can really pull you down. But as you said it wasn’t your fault, so look at the good side, I am sure your hurting but it wasn’t your doing and you have one less problem. All the lies and toxicity is hopefully behind you and...

It will take a while to get over it, so grieve over it. But set some kind of a deadline and tell yourself you’re done grieving. If not you will go down the river of loneliness. What you should do now is start enjoying life even if you are alone. Enjoy a day at a park or museum or take a vacation...

As far as making friends in school, you have very limited control. You can advise him but that’s it. You can tell him that to make friends, he needs to be a friend first. Be helpful, cheerful, and do not be mean to others. And its okay if nothing happens because he will grow up to be a good...

Hi Sonic, If you want a friend, be a friend first. If you want to enjoy life with someone, you must be enjoyable to be around first. Even though you are alone you can enjoy life and be happy. Your happiness should not depend on someone. Consider this: learn to enjoy doing things that people...

I am sorry for what you are going through, jwags818. It certainly gets lonely when you cannot find such person.   Please consider this. So many people lose their spouses, mostly the elderly, but even younger ones. There are two kinds of people here, those whose happiness, dreams and “life” have...

Hi Madbadteacher, I am very sorry for what you are going through. Its hard to get rid of pain and loneliness. Have you gone to any counseling at all? Are you still grieving for your losses? I do not mean to offend by that but I am also wondering if the hectic schedule of raising these girls are...

Hi There just a man, If wooing her, dining out, etc doesn’t work because as you said she is tired of you doing something for her, I recommend that you check out these two marriage ministries. They have a lot of success stories, I have been to one, and my friends and it is an eye opener. Although...