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Best wishes finding a new job Gus. What kind of job are you looking for?

What is your job?  How did you get hired for it? My friend's friend knew the owner of a store that makes salads, wraps and bubble tea.  So I got hired there but I decided not to work there because one of the other workers was rude to me.  Everyone else was nice to me but that one person made me...

I'm an INFJ and a Virgo.  I'm also sensitive.  No matter how many labels a person uses to describe themselves online, there's always more things such as idiosyncrasies and pet peeves to discover about a person.  I wouldn't call your labels a fake self; they're just vague hints at your true self...

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There is nothing more inspiring than a fat lady on a mission. You're right, autoimmune diseases can be treated with special diets, usually with great success. Juicing and going gluten free makes me feel better too. It clears my head so that I can focus on the improvements I need to make in...

You can talk to me, I am almost done with college. What do you struggle with in high school? And what is easy for you? What college and career do you think you will choose? A lot of people change their career goals in college, and they waste time and $ because the courses they took are no...

Has anyone else ever noticed this paradox?  In high school, college, or even at work? The people who seem really intelligent, on top of their game, and would probably be good influences never have time to hang out.  They respond to your messages but you get busy shortly after they do and you...

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Hi there, You are right - meeting the right people is hard. Maybe you have not met anyone you really identify with yet. I suggest spending more time in camera stores, even if you're not buying anything.  There, you can meet other people who share your interest. Think about other places where...

Well said The Lonely Iowan and Sir Joseph. In regards to the original poster, maybe there is something you can do to get your wife to spend more time with you, despite her severe depression. Google "Mort Fertel marriage fitness" and you should find some free articles written by the marriage...

Hi MissBehave, how do you tell if someone if deliberately being mean? On his other post about insults, Humorless was playfully insulting people, but they got very offended.  They clearly couldn't tell that it wasn't said with malice.  So how do you know when people are deliberately trying to...

That's so vague... but accurate!  I like this description of yourself.  (thumbs up)

And when your friends insult you, how mad do you get? My friend has hurt my feelings so many times!  I don't know why I'm still friends with her.  To be fair, I have insulted her a few times as well.  We forgive each other a lot.  Some people are quick to forgive, others like to hold a grudge. ...

I guess you have a point.  I don't excel at Sudoku and I don't cast spells.  How long have you been doing magic?  What spells did you cast and what results did you get?  Do you believe that "love spells" are one of the biggest scams on the internet or do they actually work when cast by the right...

LOL Are you like those cheeses that are locked away so that they can age for 10 years? How old are you?

It's great that you still see her as a fantastic woman after 20 years.  You probably have a good idea of her likes/dislikes after all that time - surprise her with something she will really appreciate, and maybe she'll show a little more interest in you. Women go through menopause in their...

"Hi I'm a mess" Well, at least you know it. It's important to be honest with yourself. It must be a real challenge to try to care for others while recognizing that you are falling apart. I do that to an extent - this week I made my mom a resume and helped her apply to jobs despite my own...

Well, I guess it could be a good thing... maybe lots of people have gotten less lonely and stopped posting all the time? I suspect that competition between social media sites plays a role.  For example, Twitter and Instagram are places where you can follow the activities of people you haven't...

I am 21 from NYC USA. I definitely had a disconnect, could barely speak to others because I was so used to being isolated and not talking much. That problem went away, but was replaced by social anxiety, which is somewhat less of a problem now. I still email people who I would rather not face...

I've also been a loner by a mixture of choice and circumstances, actually had periods of total isolation due to circumstances. The whims of fate have now given me a best friend who is extroverted, wants to hang out and talk constantly, and likes to share emotions with others. As Sir Joseph...