I want neither a vigil nor a funeral. As soon as the breath leaves my body, spirit me away to an unknown location. Don't even mark my grave. No obituaries or eulogies too. Nothing. In death, I want to go as I lived; unnoticed. Let life go on.
I will be making 30 this September and haven't been in a long-term relationship for more than 7 years. I have fertility issues, a concern to most men especially in our African society. I am a devoted Christian who would hope to be in a meaningful relationship but the two men I open to about the...