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  1. lnlflwr

    What are you thinking right now?

    Never heard of it, but I love their outfits. Gothic Lolita stuff, really cute. The music is just weird! hahaha edit: actually, the music is pretty awesome too!
  2. lnlflwr

    What are you thinking right now?

    I was trying to figure out what the new era of kpop buzz was about, it's 20min later and I'm in love with every BTS member.
  3. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    Don't you think that being flexible, and enjoying a casual encounter with one of those chubby hotties, could open the realm of possibility of being loved by one? If you got a lot of attention and you like it, seems like a good direction.  This is quite interesting because recently I had a...
  4. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    To be fair, you did tell people to ignore you in the post! Your voice matters too, don't dismiss yourself! By the face I'm guessing you're not bisexual so the attention you got on the other app didn't register much, right?
  5. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    I said you have badass vibes, actually, and added that you look nice. Maybe try to put only information that would make the ladies want to learn more about you, like not being too literal so they can come up with a question to start a conversation? I don't know, this site is the most social I'm...
  6. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    It's better this way, conflict is most often pointless. It's important to impose boundaries but when someone can't respect them, they're not worth the energy, better to walk away. What's wrong with the fat ladies? They don't interact much?
  7. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    oh wow, someone actually took the bait! My curiosity was killing me, ngl. You look nice and kinda badass, I'd like to see one with longer beard. You also look like you could beat the honeysuckle out of anyone who called you ugly, very bad boy vibes in that picture. haha
  8. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    Wish I could see pictures of you guys. I feel like unless you have some kind of facial deformity or something, almost no one is ugly. I know it's not the point, just throwing it out there.
  9. lnlflwr

    In one word. Post your current mood.

    Cynical and inadequate.
  10. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    Sorry, Aardra? Online dating certainly shows a version of who they are, but I doubt anyone shows their true self often online. Although, it's definitely easier to ignore or dismiss unwanted attention. I don't know how to help you guys. If there's no way to help and it's all decided by...
  11. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    Of course women are more selective, childbirth uses up a ton of resources, whatever males put inside one they can put inside 50 more by the end of the month without worrying about his health or future, we've evolved in those terms. But, to use dating apps data as some kind of "proof" that women...
  12. lnlflwr

    What makes life worth living?

    It's not an hedonistic message. That book was written in a concentration camp after the author's family was killed by the nazis, it's about searching for meaning in the worst circumstances and how that can save your life and mental well-being. I disagree with the last paragraph. It's easy...
  13. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    You're being very harsh here and I don't appreciate this type of treatment from someone I don't even know. I was making a joke at my own expense, because this topic makes me feel insecure, uncomfortable and also because I wanted to be light hearted since people were starting to fight. You're rude.
  14. lnlflwr

    What are you thinking right now?

    I wish people could see me.
  15. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    Oh, my stars and garters! I'm a third of Helen Mirren's age and she's still far hotter than I'll ever be. Ok guys, I get it know, I give up as well. yikes
  16. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    I understand what you're saying completely and empathize with you a lot. I don't want to be the person who's just going to say "lower your standards" because that is wrong, but I do believe you can still be attracted mostly to people that will continue the cycle of getting rejected. It doesn't...
  17. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    I'm sorry but dating app data doesn't show much other than what happens in dating apps. It's not an accurate representation of the world or human relationships. The link to OKCupid's website wasn't working either, so I don't know what those numbers truly mean without reading the methodology of...
  18. lnlflwr

    What makes life worth living?

    The ultimate freedom makes life worth living. "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way." - Viktor Frankl (A Man's Search for Meaning) mgill, this is a quote from the...
  19. lnlflwr

    Why Dating Sucks for Average Guys

    That's very true. I understand the discouragement because we all feel hopeless sometimes, but if that changes your perspective enough to feel this victimized, it'll be really hard to get the lessons you need to evolve and maybe improve.  The improvement doesn't need to be related to their...
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