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  1. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    BIG UPDATE So my girlfriend just talked with her sister, asking if it was fine is we could go and stay in a hotel for the weekend (as we can't stay anywhere else right now). She said 'I don't know', and my gf had just had enough. She said something along the lines of 'but you get to do what you...
  2. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    Umm, well she has a mum, the relationship between the two is only picking up at the moment, as she has been getting sober. Her dad died when she was 7, she has no real contact with her three younger siblings (more that she really doesn't want to), and the middle sister between her and the one...
  3. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    I haven't pressured my girlfriend during all this. When we fall into a discussion on this, I let her do a majority of the talking, let her go through what has happen so I can understand the situation and how she is feeling, and she's absolutely fed up with it, no doubt in my mind. When I do make...
  4. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    I've offered my support throughout this, each time she wants to vent I listen, and provide advice. In this time, I haven't said anything to the sister about it, and won't, unless my gf asks for support in talking to her sister, or mediating something. I receive welfare support, so if my gf and...
  5. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    Yes there was. I didn't highlight it in my last thread, I just became extremely emotional, and just went on a rant (I apologise about that). So to clarify, my girlfriend left her foster house (she was 18 at the time, so she was out of care anyway) over issues the guardians were accusing her of...
  6. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    My gf is actually on the lease contract now. Yes, over a month ago, my girlfriend was not on the lease, so what you are saying applied then. Still doesn't mean you treat your own sister like honeysuckle and make her do everything whilst you sit back and do nothing. Now my gf is on the lease, rules...
  7. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    Before this situation blew up to where it is right now, I was suggesting finding other accommodation together, as I could see it turning sour, and things between the sister and ex weren't good (there was constant fighting and violence between the two, and I wanted to get her out of that...
  8. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    Thankyou. My gf is very hesitant to do anything just because it is family business (if it wasn't a family orientated situation, she would voice her concerns immediately), and she obviously knows her sister very well, and knows how she copes and deals with things. We were talking the other day...
  9. M

    Looking for advice on this situation

    I made this post elsewhere and only got a few responses, so I'm looking to get other insights. So here it goes... My gf (18) and I (19) have been together for 8 months, and around 6 of which she has been living with her sister and up until recently her sisters ex, as she was kicked out of her...
  10. M

    How to cope in a relationship in these times

    She actually doesn't really have a life outside of us. She works maybe 2-3 5 hour shifts per week at a fast food place, and then we are back to being together. She herself has very few friends, most of which live hundreds of kilometres away.  As for the clinginess, it has just always been the...
  11. M

    How to cope in a relationship in these times

    We are both very clingy, so, I guess it kind of cancels each other out. In another relationship where the other person isn't very clingy, then yeah, it might pose a problem.  As for the jobs, I've already tried. I went to a job interview at a chemist, but wasn't selected, and I applied to all...
  12. M

    How to cope in a relationship in these times

    I understand about stopping the spread of the virus, but previous to being kicked out of their house, I had been there for about one and a half weeks. Anything they had, I had, and I was then passing that onto my family when I went back.  As for coping, I don't know how to do that. I feel as if...
  13. M

    How to cope in a relationship in these times

    I'm 19, from Australia, and have been in a relationship for nearly eight months now.  The coronavirus is causing large-scale shutdown of society in Australia, possibly to the point of a lockdown. People are freaking out everywhere. One of those people is my girlfriends sister. Now this is a...
  14. M

    Old issue arises in new relationship

    I've always been pretty tight for money. I only got my first job at age 17. I was in a relationship before I got that job, and my girlfriend at the time had a job herself. It killed me watching her go to work every weekend, and all the things she could do with the money she earnt, whilst I was...
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