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Yea I know you are right, but at the moment, I can't let go... not with how things went, not without an explanation... the birthday gift, it was a coat for winter (she had said she didn't have one), she had opened it, tried it on....or from the looks of it at least checked it out.... you don't...

even worse, got to work this morning and the birthday gift was in front of the door..... She has cut all ties....so yea I am at rock bottom right now, and have no idea why or what I did wrong....

Well I guess thats that then... She was let go at work, but I was still sending morning "good morning have a great day" type posts and she would wish the same for me...her birth is coming up in 10 days so I got her a birthday present and had it delivered to her home... next day I was unfriended...

I was gonna say, before I read the reply above, that it sounded like she might be interested, he knew it and wasn't happy...lol

Mixed signals are the worst.... there is no right or wrong, go with your gut.... after all, you said she is shy, the initial no may have been her self-defeating reaction, being shy myself, self-confidence is an issue, and she may have been in the mindset that you'd be disappointed.... if you...

today when was the last time you went to work with NO sleep?

fun is subjective.....there are also different levels of fun....I mean I can have fun playing a video game, but that isn't the same kind of fun I could have if I had a significant other if you know what I mean..lol

no different than any other day to me... I'll go to work, go home, eat, watch some tv then go to bed like always..lol

I tried the meetup thing.... nothing local, closest was 100 miles away and was like for pregnant mothers.....lol....

hmmm I might be off, cause I am bad at this stuff, but I dunno... she was telling me some more personal stuff that has her concerned involving a family member and some medical concerns, just kind of out of the blue... not stuff you'd just tell anyone.... or at least how I was raised it was more...

life??? whats that?

a few years ago....

all dating sites, they are all scams full of bots and fake profiles....

hmmm...so many to choose from.... Being paralyzed for sure, no control of your body, living solely in your own head another is fearing my stupid anxiety has caused me to pass up all my chances for happiness, you know the old what if I didn't have it and did this or that differently would my life...

Well I mean subconsciously I coulda been showing I cared..lol I actually can't help in that regard, if I like someone on a more romantic level, I kinda show it without even knowing

I dunno i was thinking romantic, I just wanted her to know her accomplishment was a big deal and she deserved recognition

if only it were that easy.... whole situation is a little more complicated, we work fairly close together....and currently my anxiety is not ready to make that kind of move... she also suffers from anxiety and currently may not be ready for me to make that kind of move either...

a bit of an update.... Likely NOT gonna work out, I think she is a little more tied to her childs father.. Though I do get mixed signals...she goes out of her way to let me get to know her better/tells me things about herself....so I dunno... I have no other prospects and don't meet new people...

lunch thing is not really an option unfortunately.... and yea SLOOOOW... I am more apt to be too slow than to rush and put pressure

maybe never know unless I ask, BUT right now my brain is saying I know and it is no.... good news maybe, today I started medication and next tue is my first counseling visit.... maybe in a few months I will be able to take that plunge.... she starts a new semester in her degree on the 3rd so she...