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I recently turned 55. I feel like if a woman is into me, I will probably not find her attractive. At the same time I feel lonely. I think I would feel better, even if I had a purely sexual relationship with a woman, as long as I know she's not there for ulterior motives (money, visa, etc.). At...

I wasn't talking about who pays on a first date, that is something different. I'm talking about selecting a partner based on his or her wealth. If I'm selected that way, I will feel exploited, especially if the woman has her own income. I don't know what you mean by "working class". "Working...

Well, it's hard to fall in love with someone who's in the gutter, that is true, but between that and looking for the one with the biggest wallet there is a big distinction. Those are gold diggers, and chances are that the moment they think they have an opportunity for a man with a bigger wallet...

I could never love a woman who loves me for my wallet, I think it's just a sort of prostitution, though it's not called that way. And no, it's not as shallow to want someone for their looks, because these are a part of that person, your wallet can get stolen from one moment to another. So no, I...

I don't know, it's easy to think that one's own personal experience is how the majority feels, and it seems that investigations confirm my point of view...

I think your idea that it would not be limited to a certain age, is what is excentric. Can you imagine being 20 and being attracted to a 90 year old? Do you think women don't have any preferences as to age? I think most people are attracted to a certain age range, and it is ideal if that...

That is a strange way of reasoning, as if as a human being you can decide for yourself who you are attracted to. I also hate the idea that a man somehow has to have a bag of money to "compensate" for being with an attractive woman. It creates the idea that somehow having sex is a sacrifice for...

So for you their physical appearance does not matter? For me it does, most of women my age don't look attractive to me. I'm not looking for a woman to serve me, women can have their own opinion for me, they can go out to work, etc.

I understand, but I gave the example of the women I met at a speed dating event. These were women I immediately saw in the flesh, I was not attracted to them, and apparently none of them felt even an urge to have a second conversation with me.

I guess I'm lost now. I'm 54, yet, I don't really feel physically attracted to most women my age category. What's more, it seems very few women are attracted to me. When a younger woman contacts me (like on a dating site), there is always an alterior motive (looking for a sugar daddy, trying to...

Best of luck, Ceno. Have faith in your doctor.

I do agree though that monogamy is not how nature built us, but we humans do a lot of stuff that does not follow the rules of nature. The moment we started to put on clothes and stopped living in caves we stopped doing everything "as nature intended it". So I don't agree with people who think we...

That's funny, it is very similar to what I put on my Tinder profile. Relationships are like plants: you have to take care of them. Now there are some plants that don't need a lot of water, but I am not a cactus. You don't have to be married to be cheated upon. Even if you're just together in a...

Yes, and sometimes they call it polyamorous instead of "open relationship", but it comes down to the same thing. Also, women have it a lot easier to find another sex partner than men, especially on dating sites. If all they want is a large variety of sex, with a large variety of partners, those...

Guess it's just a case of selfishness, like people having a dog honeysuckle in someone else's garden. I can guarantee you they wouldn't like it if someone else did that to them. If they weren't selfish they would suggest an open relationship, in which both sides can see other people. If they cheat it...

It certainly isn't very well thought out. That guy told me he had had unprotected sex with another girl for more than 2 years before, and that girl never got pregnant. Anyway, I read that there are women on Tinder who have their agenda filled with different guys, and she lets all of them believe...

I think it is a bit simple to link character traits with the genius or lack of it from a famous or infamous person. Like Hitler was a painter and a vegetarian, that does not mean that painters are evil. Vegetarians on the other hand, hmmm. ;)

Yet I think that if I did the same with these women they would be furious. The Tanzanian woman did not like African men, "because they always have side chicks".

Yes, I think that is indeed probably the best answer. They feel they can do it and get away with it. What I think I'll do from now on is no longer to wait until I have proof of the cheating. If I see behaviour changes and the signs are there, I will tell her (this is mostly obvious if they start...

Yes, I think Brazilian women can be gorgeous, some of the most pretty on this planet. We call them latinas here, so this includes all women from the Americas. I think the "exotic" -whatever that means in my mind- attracts me.