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I resign myself to being lonely to avoid facing this seemingly impenetrable tangle of paranoia of everyone wanting to put me down, and exchange secret comments about me and laugh about how hopeless and/or inferior i am. Does anyone else ever feel this way? Does anyone have insight into...

i moved in with a roommate i just met after breaking up with my ex, almost four months ago. the other day, my roommate was in the other room. i was focused on my own thing. then my roommate moved the chair, and at the sound, i got an image of my ex, and wanting to go over there to be...

I wish I could show some love to all those from whom I have gained so much from randomly intersecting with their written thoughts. There's one member who PM'd me, before knowing absolutely anything about me, and that is lovehurtme, so I would definitely like to send love to her. Her open welcome...

sex because to obtain an endless supply of sex means i would have to become immortal. that also means that every lover i could ever be with would eventually die, so i would have to keep on falling in love with someone new each time. that is a wonderful thing because it means that by and by i...

i am working so hard on not overthinking everything. i think your comments are very helpful, because what you describe sounds exactly like what i go through, and your passion to decrease overthinking only encourages me more to keep on struggling to discover how to stop doing it. i have to admit...

Blowing warm kisses Restore Valentine blisses That my heart misses Happy Valentine's everybody This Valentine's, I honor my heart that forgives and my soul that heals. I know there is no choice but to bravely face the pain of my loneliness, without trying to intoxicate myself to forget it...

wow to everything you said. and to your signature; i think you certainly came and saw, and your words helped me kick the whole ass of the doubt of it being possible for me or any one to achieve and to maintain a STATE OF PEACE (OR OF EMERGENCY - like in Bjork song). i understand where my peace...

Paid $200 to send a 5lb package to India by Purolator. Grrr. Bad decision, I regret it. I could have taken out the one book that is a gift, which would probably have made it cost something reasonable like $50. I could have snail-mailed the book, no rush for that. But I was frustrated at...

There's a party going on outside for the last hour and the music is total 90s crap. Hack, gag. We work in a hospital. Have some consideration for the sick and dying, idiots. You're causing unnecessary pain & suffering with this garbage! Checked reviews for the Notorious movie opening...

It is nice to meet you. I am looking forward to future exchanges. Wishing you a peaceful enlightening journey here.

Good thoughts. All things I have tried and considered. For me, sleeping with the tv on helps me fall asleep within minutes, when naturally it can take me up to an hour (because it distracts me from my own endless uncontrolled thoughts, as was already mentioned). Yet though it helps me fall...

I hear both of you. I worked long and hard to deepen my patience. Yet it is not only that. It really is about remembering to keep things simple. I think we all wish life could be simple. It starts to blow up when we are faced with factors we cannot control. I think for many people here, we...

I agree, but as ever, easier said than done, and doesn't really help to cope with the current situation. I find first you need to face what's holding you back from feeling fulfilled, not just with your new marriage, but even from before that. Although many of us in this forum feel like we have...

hey bella. i hope you're right!

We cannot forget that no matter how our society changes, women still need to be able to thrive as wives and as mothers. We are collectively becoming wiser to what it takes for any person to thrive during their life, and specifically for women too. Every individual needs to be seen and heard...

i commend your relentlessness to save women. i assure you it's a worthy cause. http://www.alonelylife.com/images/smilies/smile.gif when i consider becoming a lesbian, it's because i'm exhausted by hoping to find a man who will understand my pain and will know how to fulfill my dreams (physical...

i love this heartwarming exchange: i've had the same thoughts myself, as a (quasi) white woman. i'm italian - my big nose and crazy expressions probably give it away that i'm not 'typical' white (english or american). another thing i can add to this thread is the perspective of a tall woman...

a deep thank you, santosh each friend made here is something sacred to me I am overcome with hope with the positive support I have already found here From you and everyone who has replied to anything I wrote

all the replies are like music to my soul i used to be very hard and closed toward every person now i realize that i am not an island - i know my life is entwined with everyone else this forum is a safe place to start this journey of realizing my interconnection with the 'universal organism' or...

I am a 26-year-old female graduate student in science, wanting to improve tools for understanding the physical basis of the mind, living in west coast Canada for the last 3.5+ years. I was born and raised in Quebec before that. If I could wish one thing, it is that sharing myself with others in...