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    Talking about shame

    Guys, I have an embarassing story to tell. I made a stuff up today at work, I was serving a difficult client this afternoon and right at the end I didn't know where to schedule him for, there was no supervisor around to ask and so I put his matter for the wrong date. I only realised this just...
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    Going to places alone

    Hi. I've got a dilemma.  There's a folk festival on near me that I've never been to and I would love to go.  But the thing is I've got no-one to go with me and I'm not totally sure that I'd enjoy it on my own. It's a camping deal and I've never camped before - I'm a bit out of my element there...
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    Road Rage!

    OK, here's a really pretty trivial incident for this forum.  I was in the shopping centre car park today, busier than usual as it's leading up to Christmas, and I did the stupid thing and rear ended somebody.  Really dumb, I was going really slowly and didn't even see it properly I just heard...
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    High school hell

    Hey everybody.  I just wanted to unload on this forum about an incident that had a far reaching effect in my life. In high school when I was in year nine I got into a situation where I stood up for a couple of girls who were copping some racism and I got bullied for months over it. I would...
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    My boss stresses me out

    Hey, I have a boss right now who called me into his office yesterday because he's not happy with the way I'm working. He's been there for about two weeks and reprimanded me over something I did (which was in fact in line with our established procedure). He can absolutely freeze you with one look...
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    What do people think about assertive dating?

    I'm not comfortable with the idea of dating aggressively (like computer dating etc) and I'm just wondering what other people think. A while ago I went to see a counsellor (as part of a course) who advised me to approach strange guys IN THE STREET DURING THE DAY and ask them for a date. His...
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    National sensitivity

    This may seem like a weird topic, but it's a weird thing to be bothering me! Lately someone I know who does not particularly like my country has been venting a lot about all the things that are wrong with it. Some of the things he's saying hurt to listen to all the more because they've got a...
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    STUPIDITY

    Hi everyone, Basically a lot of people think I'm stupid! Now, a lot of people will say that's their problem and not mine, but when you run up against it all the time you can't help worrying about it a bit. It really started in high school. I was actually smart at primary school and near or...
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    Depressed

    Okay. Back to the lonely life forum again, it's so good to have you guys to talk to from time to time! I turned 43 yesterday, been single all my life, basically because I'm BORING! Unfortunately this is true, heard and been told it too many times to ignore. Not many guys at all have never...
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    teenage rejection still affecting me

    Hi everyone. I've had to do a reflective essay lately, and I've been thinking back a bit, and I went through a really traumatic period when I was in year 9 at high school. Some people might think this would be a trivial thing. What happened was in an effort to make friends I found myself...
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    Going to events solo

    I'm curious as to whether anyone else feels uncomfortable in going to places alone. There are sometimes places I'd like to go - concerts, festivals, stuff like that - but I miss them all because I don't know anyone else who wants to go, and I'd feel uncomfortable going there alone. I'm...
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    What's your inspiring story?

    As somebody who loves literature and movies, I've always been interested in the effect they have on people. It's true they're all products of the author's own particular emotional state and worldview, but the ones that achieve popularity all have something about them which speaks to a broad...
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    Cosmetic surgery

    Hello, just wanted to start a discussion on a subject on which everyone seems to have an opinion. Cosmetic surgery, in particular, nose jobs. I've been considering having a nose job to remove a hump on my nose which really is pretty hideous. My problem, apart from finding a good surgeon who...
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    Fantasies - can they heal?

    Hey! I just want to unload some of my feelings a bit. I'm 42, well on my way to confirmed spinsterdom (yup, even got cats!) and due to long standing social problems, I've never even been on a date. At school, I was the ugly girl (to some), and in my twenties, the boring girl. In my thirties I...
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    Painful memories

    Hey, I have a story to tell, I just want to get it off my chest. I get depressed every now and then because I've always been such a loser with guys. I'm pretty quiet and I don't say very much, it's just the way I am, I've tried to change but can't. I was kind of the ugly girl as a teenager...
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