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Thank you kamya. I know I will be fine once she leaves. You might be right about the projected feelings, I will have to investigate that. You are probably right about it not being love. I don't even believe in such an idea. If movies are to be believed (and really that's my only benchmark at...

Yes VanillaCreme, your point makes perfect logical sense. And once all this is over (the facts I shared became apparent to me just yesterday, because in my stupid blind adoration of her I was simply too unwilling to accept such a possibility) it will be exactly what I tell myself. But the fact...

Thank you Interpol. What you went through was horrible and you have indeed done well. I guess I do not have much of an option either. I will have to man up and take it as it comes. There isn't much else I can do anyways. To the hopefully last bad 12 days in my near future. If anyone else has an...

I need help. I am in love with a woman who is engaged to someone else and is dating another person (well sort of fooling around). To make matters worse I have to keep seeing her for the next 12 days and keep on being friendly (I thought we were friends but really we are just friendly...

I agree with ringwood, cherrywood sounded like she was just being honest in her opinion, and though it might not be what you expected or wanted to hear, but some of her comments made sense. People can have the perfect life, the perfect person in their life and yet they will go ahead and screw it...

Sigh, I may be wrong but I think it is a cycle, this problem that you describe. The more desperate you feel the more stilted you will get in front of girls and the lesser chances you will have of befriending them, which in turn will make you even more desperate. So the next time you approach a...

Waterboys <---- (Y)

I actually googled a random word generator and decided that the first word that it generates will be my nick on this forum- hence. At the same time though the nick fits me well in some ways, but then that's another story.

Hope, I think you did the right thing in the situation. I hope that things work out for you.

I am emphasizing the subtle part. Be SUBTLE. If you overdo it, she might get freaked out or feel cheated or abused or lied to- as if all this is a game that you are playing to get to her. More importantly be natural. Things don't have to be awkward. Be cool.

I wont change a thing for if I did, the new me would want a different life than what he had then and the cycle would never have ended. No regrets, that's my motto. There is no yesterday. Heh, that only took a minute and a half.

What he said- but then I also tend to think very pessimistically in such scenarios. Any optimist takers? (congratulates himself on his "succinctism")

It is nice to know that I am not the only one. But is kind of strange, isn't it?

In the end though it just comes down to how you want to look at things. Your view of it is just as right as mine, or just as wrong. And yes, probably the right thing to do- to call I mean.

Katia, think of this way: it means something because you want it to mean something. A cloth with some colors and a particular design is a cloth with some colors and a particular design until someone finds it to mean the symbol of the identity of his/her nation. It is then when the cloth...

Hope, I was referring to the subconscious trying to be known through dreams- that's what Freud said and did so without any proof. Apart from that I agree with your interpretation of dreams. I apologize for my post giving the wrong impression. My bad.

Hope_Reigns, sorry to say this but Freud was a quack. That said there are a number of theories regarding dreams and there isn't anything that says anything conclusive about dreams. Check out wikipedia to get an overview of them: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dream#Dream_theories However, there...

I totally get that, in fact though I might not be as socially active as you are, I am doing quite well. In fact whenever I am around people for too long I need to be just alone and whenever I am alone for too long, I just need to be around people. It's a very strange cycle. And as far as...

Why do people want others' acceptance. Life is too short to be wasted on trying to please others.

Kiseki- Rookies OST. Sweet song.