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  1. Solace

    anyone actually like being alone?

    I echo Kamya's sentiments. When it's no longer a choice it becomes draining. To answer your question, though, I do enjoy being alone. Some weekends I just want to stay home and put things in order, make some cards or write stories or read. I especially enjoy it on stormy nights like these. I...
  2. Solace

    Why Are Some People Plagued with Chronic Loneliness?

    It goes without saying there are probably a lot of different reasons for chronic loneliness. For me, I think it started because I was very close to a few friends and then I lost many of them. I learned at a young age the people I thought would be with me forever could withdraw emotionally and...
  3. Solace

    Chasing Ghosts in the Forest

    Oooh I love the picture, it's a very neat plant. Sounds scary getting lost. But i'm glad you found it in the end :D
  4. Solace

    Pickup Lines

    I tried "People as attractive as you shouldn't be out on the ice. It's dangerously distracting." all I got was a blank look.
  5. Solace

    Happy Birthday Solace

    Thanks guys! *hugs everyone* I love all the balloons.
  6. Solace

    How soon is now?

    I love that song... The Smiths rock on! I know you weren't really looking for a common fan though... Maybe someone will revive something within you. They say love is a spark. Maybe something will catch fire and light something within you... even though it is dead cold right now. Hope...
  7. Solace

    when was the last time you ate toast?

    This afternoon
  8. Solace

    Venting

    If it is, you have to forgive yourself. If it isn't, forgive yourself for feeling that way. But I don't think it is your fault. Sometimes people just get sick. But you don't have to stay sick... It'll take work to get where you want to be, just like everyone else on the planet will learn. It's...
  9. Solace

    Venting

    I know exactly what you mean, and i've been there. Sometimes depression just happens... it's not your fault it's just something that comes upon you. But there are things we can do to discourage it from settling in. Please don't hurt yourself. I got caught up with self-harm and 2 years later I...
  10. Solace

    What are consequences of long loneliness?

    it hurts. Badly. When you're lonely, there's something big missing from your life and it's hard to be happy.
  11. Solace

    A thought...

    I have come to that realization too... But I have also come to the realization, that in being open with the people who are safer, I learned how to be open. I learned how to express myself. Years later, I am begining to be open in a positive way with a (select) few people. Had I not been open...
  12. Solace

    List five positive things you've done today.

    1. I went to class 2. practiced piano 3. Did laundry 4. Woke up early 5. did some dishes
  13. Solace

    In one word. Post your current mood.

    continuous
  14. Solace

    The Silence That Binds

    I often feel... separate, too. Let me tell you... the depression lifts, sometimes, even against your own will. Sometimes it stays against your will. It is a force of it's own, sometimes. But there are things you can do to encourage it to stay or to go. My depression lightened a good deal...
  15. Solace

    A lonliness like grief

    6,656 days old. I am missing someone. Today I was out with friends having a good time but somewhere part of me was searching every face for someone I am missing. I felt this tugging in my heart. In the back of my mind. A loneliness like grief. I pulled out my phone. I felt I this nagging...
  16. Solace

    What would you do before commuting suicide?

    Lonesome, that's a cool story. Kwil? I don't know if I thikn this is an apropriate subject. It might be taken by some to mean you are advocating suicide. And we don't do that here. Perhaps a better question could be phrased like this: What do you feel you need to have done before you pass away?
  17. Solace

    How do you obtain lifelong or high quality friends?

    I have a number of friends. (but not many close ones...) One friend I only see once every few months, but our families have been friends for years. She doesn't gossip with me about her frineds at school because I don't go to her school or know any of her friends. She doesn't gossip about me...
  18. Solace

    socializing makes me feel lonelier

    Yes i've experienced this... It's like, you know you won't be close to them after one talk and maybe not ever. I just don't feel like i'm on the same page as anyone. It's disheartening. But I second that plauge warns: don't forgoe the socializing either. There's one boy I know and i just...
  19. Solace

    new, nervous, and not very good at alliteration

    Hey there and welcome. I've read some of Orson Scott Card, but none of J.K Rowling. I need to... I also love poetry. My age is weird as well. I am 18, but it seems strange like I should be both younger, I don't know how I got to be this old, and also seems like I should be much older...
  20. Solace

    Anxiety

    So most of my anxiety comes from good things. With me the attack is purely physical. I know i'll be fine but it sucks. my hands start shaking and i just want to unzip my body and step out. For example when seeing my Aunt for the first time in years, I was excited to see her but had to retreat...
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