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Interesting happened the other day...I was at a social gathering and I looked around the room. I was initially attracted to two of the men in the room, sort of a knee jerk reaction. Later in the evening, some other guy (who I later found out is in a happy relationship) came over to tlak to me...

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I'm a HUGE fan of LOST-seriously, it's like the best show to come out of the 2000's so far. Also, I've recently rediscovered Buffy-which I was like addicted to as a kid. Anyone here a Buffy fan?

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Great post, Brian. I get the difference between attraction and connection, not that the former is unimportant though.

Yeah, this rings true. I guess it's just frustrating going through all the superficial stuff before getting to the 'meaningful'. But I totally agree. I've met a number of 'attractive' guys who turn out to be not so attractive after all once I get to know them. I guess its about putting myself...

Thanks to everyone! You've made me feel very welcome :) Oh, and Minus...love your avi.

I suppose, to be fair, the first thing you see is the physical, so it would make sense that an initial response is based on that.

You're right, Lingo, it is about connection. The problem is, I'll never know if there is a connection if no-one talks to me. I know I should do the approaching as well...but that's scary. Bluey-I know many girls who don't nec go for the "tall, strong" guy. Is it a generalisation to think that...

I like this system :) Thanks for the welcome.

Hey all... For a long time I've been wondering how important physical characteristics are for attaction. What is it that makesd a guy come over and talk to you? It's nice to do a song and dance about 'it's what's inside that counts', but is that really the case? I mean, I'm a 20 year old...

Hi :shy: My name is Alexandra. I'm 20 (almost 21) and I live in Cape Town, South Africa. Like so many others, I just googled the word 'lonely' and found this place. After much internal debate I decided to join, and, after reading so many great posts, I'm glad I did. Umm...a little bit about...

Hi there everyone *waves a little wave* I'm Alex, 20, from South Africa. It's great to have found this place :)