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BIN HIM!! For the sake of your children you HAVE to be STRONG! -take him to the cleaners, let him bleed for what he's done to you and your children. Eradicate him out of your life completely! Be open and honest to your children -without getting emotional- and tell them that it's now you and...

Socrates, this might sound arrogant, but I would never have approached a guy, I expected the guy to approach me -in a nice, polite way! Women don't IGNORE you by not approaching you! You're expecting too much, mate. Just go out -pub, club, cafe- if you see someone who looks nice, smile at her...

Why should they "approach" you?

Good and valid question! In my case what's (been) missing is: Parents who love me, a deep-rooted sense of self-worth, a deep rooted sense of belonging, a job (preferable with purpose and satisfaction), people (if not real friends then at least likeable people) NEARBY to hang out with.

I always call/ email, the more I make an effort the lazier the other side gets... either people want real contact with you or they don't and only fall back on you on a whim when no one else is at hand; Being cool doesn't mean one isn't fun(ny)... cool AND funny wins!; Negativ, positiv... it's...

I collect stuffed-animals which comes in handy with son being a toddler *lol*.

Wow man, you put a hell of a lot work in this! -well done! Good guideline, one can get some good advice out of it. Thanks for sharing.

You're just fishing for compliments, mate.

Hi "idontknow", I can relate in terms of parents (don't get me started!) and in terms of so-called-friends who are "too busy" to make time for friendship... My 2 pence (or cent) on the money subject: I only ever give/ borrow as much money as I can afford to write off! Doesn't mean I wouldn't be...

Right you are! My reply was only refering to human friends. But indeed I lost one of my best ever friends on June 12 -my beloved cat. It still feels like a dark hole inside my heart and absolutely nothing can fill it...

Thank goodness, it took me only 28 years of life, 2 relationships in total and 1 divorce before finding my Mr. decent guy :D

I've heard 101 bullying-stories before but what you guys (Luna, LC and others) endured is mind-blowingly shocking!! And -don't bother to answer, as there is no answer- what the bloody heck is wrong about being Chinese??? -or infact any other racial origin!! It's upsetting to realize how many...

Yep. Totally my experience.

Friendship. Very rare, even harder to find. [Don't bother to look for it in England -it takes at least a year living in close approximity/ seeing each other on regular occasion before people even start to consider you as a potential accaintance.]

Your friend is probably bored out of her skull and by suggesting you cheating on hubby she hopes for some gossip-candy to spice up her own miserable life!

It really depends on the type of person -some can pull it off, some can't.

A friend is someone you can just call on to talk at any (reasonable and if necessary unreasonable) time. A friend is someone you can hang out with -without any purpose other than spending time together. A friend is someone you speak to/ meet at least once a week if they live in the same town and...

Hi everyone, I found this forum yesterday and hope it will help with boredom and loneliness both having been part of almost all my life. I'm originally German and live in England since 3 1/2 years. I'm approaching 33 years of life. Cu round.