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im sorry things are so far away. i actually looked for a year before i found anything. at first everything was either too far away or i didnt really like the people. but then i moved and the groups are much better here.

it has been great. i joined an out door club and im going kayaking with a bunch of people. i went to a cook out and another social event with another group, and im on a slow pitch softball team now. its been really great. im certainly not friends with any of these people, and i still keep to...

ive been isolated for the past five years. i havent had any friends or hung out with anyone. i found a website called meetup.com and you can find a group that is interested in what you are. even if you dont make friends with the people, which i tend not to, its still nice to be around people and...

I adopted my pound puppy when i was going through a really bad time. i was so depressed. she helped me get out of it. i had to take care of her and that required getting up, getting dressed, and talking to people. i consider my dog as my saving grace. she wasnt the end all to my depression, but...

try to make yourself feel useful in some respect. volunteer, rescue an animal, go back to school, get a job. try to keep busy and keep your mind off your loneliness.

i like sitting around at home not doing much, too. i think you hit it on the head. i am in the rat race- big time. but i feel forced into the rat race since i have to worry about taking care of myself. i would like to have a simple, part time, no pressure job. but ive had those jobs and not only...

I would never teach anything less then community college. Just like i wont be a personal fitness training for anyone other then older adults. they are the only people that understand why they are there. my mom teaches and she said the parents are what is the hardest part. the students, yes...

this is exactly what people think when i say i have no desire for teaching. this is what i meant in my original post that i dont understand why people automatically assume that just because you dont like it you're no good at it. why do i have to like it to be good at it? truth is i am good at...

ya i know. im about a year from getting my biology degree and then will get a masters in virology. i love biology- especially virology. i like learning it. truthfully id stay a student the rest of my life if it was economically feasible. school is pretty easy for me. I think how one defines a...

i havent faced these problems in divorce- only in marriage. My husband is also addicted to porn and would rather jack off then have sex with me. I also have put on weight and my self-esteem is pretty low. I went through a stage of such rage brought on by the lying but also by the sexual...

so i got a job...yay for me. and there was no interview....more yay for me.... when i was younger my mom always told me what to say in an interview. but i never could say it because it was always a lie. she told me its not a lie and would proceed to twist it around into a white lie. whatever...

i was actually working out for a couple weeks but then i have to get up early and go to work. once im up early im useless. im a zombie the rest of the day. i actually think there might be something medically wrong. its to the point that i almost fall asleep driving home. ive gotten in a couple...

It could be you're just hanging out with the wrong crowd. It sounds like you are around young girls that are really immature. This may sound like a strange suggestion but have you considered looking for a girl at a church?

Ive thought about this a lot, too. The only conclusion i have come to is that you have to have an idea of where you want to end up- even if you never get there or getting there is impossible for you- because there is no such thing as static emotion. you are either progressing further into...

i lost a lot of weight doing the south beach diet. it was a really good diet because it teaches you how to eat right, not just diet. it was the first time in my life that i didnt crave any junk food. there was candy sitting around and i didnt even want it. the only downside is the recipes can be...

Anyone else find living utterly exhausting?? I am so tired all the time. im trying to motivate myself to workout but im just so tired.

lol...showering is overrated. if it wasnt for social pressure id never shower. its just such a pain.

it seems my storm is passing, as it usually does. i was very depressed for about a week. wasnt showering or getting out of bed. thinking my life was pointless, i was probably going to fail at everything, so i should just call it quits now and not suffer the endless torment. but.... i feel...

Do you ever wonder why you have so much negative self-talk? i was wondering this the other day. Dr. Phil always tells his guests that you wouldnt do something if you werent getting something out of it. So i wonder if i am getting something from it, some kind of masochistic reward?? But i thought...

initially when you first start dating someone you do get a high that alleviates the loneliness, especially if you fall in love with them. but what goes up must come down; the more in love you are, the more connected you feel, the harder you will eventually fall, and you will feel loneliness like...