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Awww, thanks, you are very sweet. Yeah, the only real way to know if you have it or not is to get a herpes blood test...unfortunately, if you ask for an STD battery, herpes isn't included. This is the reason that it keeps spreading. You can never have a symptom but still spread it. There are...

I'm 31 and never had a problem with dating until I got this. I'm still quite popular amongst the other "herpsters", but I'm very selective.

Actually, she sees it as a huge deal...that's why she lied. If you can't be honest with yourself and live true, then it's a gigantic thing in your life.

How old are you now? Seriously, having herpes isn't that big of a deal...you just have to know how to handle it. You can date others with it...join dating sites, attend meetings and join a social club. You don't get fed up with rejection and try to "recruit" people. You become a vicious...

It's not okay, never said it was. But he didn't take the vows, so it's really her problem. I did what I did, not proud of it and would never do it again. If anyone in my life tells me they are or want to do it, I tell them that it's not good for anyone. But if it were MY husband...I hold him...

Touche, I suppose I was...just not about him being the bad guy and a homewrecker. That's not his responsibility to care about a stranger. Because nothing good comes out of it...time to move on. Even if she doesn't actually get a divorce, separate...whatever. Doesn't really matter though...

Yes, the challenge is when do you tell (ALWAYS before sex, of course). For me, I'm not going to allow feelings to grow...that will only lead to a good change of being rejected and getting hurt. In big cities like mine, 1 in 3 have it. What your ex did was SO wrong...not only morally, but she...

No, it's not wrong...it's time for her to get a divorce and do what she wants to do. I don't know if you're referring to me about talking down to you. I was not, that was not my intention at all. I'm a very blunt and honest person and that's what my friends love so much about me. It's always...

Well now that I have herpes, it has happened a lot. I stick with only dating guys that also have it...just makes it easier and cuts down the rejection quite a bit.

I'm with you, sista. I'm 32 (look about 25) and LOVE body hair. As I always say...I love a 70s bush. I, on the other hand, am completely shaved.

I'm not going to preach to you like the others. Nothing good comes out of being with a married person, been there, done that...never again. But the fact of the matter is, it happens all the time...and as shitty as it sounds, it's HER problem, not yours. SHE'S the one betraying her husband and...

So here I am over 30 now, 31 to be exact. I had fun in my 20s, not interested in getting married or having children...could all come later. Then, a year and a half ago I get diagnosed with genital herpes. That has changed the dating world tremendously. Physically, it's no big deal...doesn't...