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oh you mean the 7 points? what it basically means then is if you're f*cked up due to something that f*cked you up then you have no hope with the opposite sex and thus a chance of love. now SURELY that's gonna f*ck you up even more! THE ONLY THING THAT THOSE POINTS MEAN IS THAT LOVE ISNT A HERO...

uhhh because women are a part (sometimes seemingly unfortunately lol) of the human race. Attraction is basically a motion of 'I see that it looks good and so I will go there' ... but that thing that looks good isn't always that good .. and that thing that is 'unattractive due to not looking...

Attraction is flawed simon, you saying that everything in the human race hasn't got a flawed side? What Planet you on then? A woman can be attracted to the worse kind of man due to the worse reasons ALL WHILE NOT SEEING HIS TRUTH .. this happens ALL the time, man seems nice, but man isn't nice...

All that si, Its just the way it SHOULDNT be. Just because a reality appears to be there doesn't mean that that reality is correct now does it? ALL your saying really is THERE ARE REASONS NOT TO LOVE!! That's all your saying. Really there isn't a reason its just the world has become clogged up...

White wine or Rose wine mostly, Vodka, Sambuca, maybe cider .. or a good old can or 2 of strong lager!

You're right, we all deserve better, but 'deserve' is not what its about is it? I have had ONE serious relationship in my whole life and that came because I met a girl who I enjoyed being with but I didn't fancy her! Purely because I just wanted to be friends with her made her want me even more...

hmmm I take it you didn't read my initial post! .. It gives you self confidence / self image techniques that when done repeatedly... WORK!!

Nothing should really turn anybody off, Its only seeing somebody on face value a lot of the time and people have had lives and these lives change you. bad experiences, PTSD, an unfortunate run of incidents = less confidence. A man who isn't in control and gets pushed around a bit? maybe he's...

In my experience support groups and therapists won't help you very much with the issue's you're talking about. I had to almost literally drag myself out of a grave a few years ago and so I was looking through many things to help me grow in a positive way, I found myself become naturally more...

PTSD - as in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder? I went though something really bad about 5 years ago which led onto a few other things in a pretty nightmarish 6 months. I went from a happy guy, just came out of a loving relationship which meant my confidence was high and so I was enjoying the...

Do some Paul McKenna for a while and then go to the mall and see how different you're feeling! You might end up doing something you've never done and end up back at some chicks house! ya never know!

I'm 35 and trapped with seemingly no opportunities (I always say seemingly because it takes away the definitive!) .. I look back all to often to when I was your age and see all the mistakes I made in my life and things that I could have done instead to really change things and move forward in a...

I am writing this while drunk, granted, which is maybe something I shouldn't do, But I've found in my life that there are a very limited amount of women who are right for me. I don't consider myself 'normal', I think I have had many experiences that most wouldn't identify with. It feels like I...

Nah you haven't Si, find the right woman and she will find you, its a two way thing and if it isn't two ways then its probably not worth it anyway. Too many women need men to put something inside of them and make them feel something due to how the man is being but the good ones will see...

To the OP: Best way to over come shyness, TRUST ME: Paul McKenna 'Positivity' ... once you learn how to rebuild and change your self image , self esteem etc you will find that shyness melts away if you keep up with it .. you will then find that you are different and more natural (less shy) in...

I am the friend SimonT is talking about. Of course people develop and change in confidence, I'm up and down all the time, I've had quite a lot, had it damaged badly and then worked to re build it. What I was saying to Simon is it can be hard to grow out of deep damage, unless you do something to...