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Good. I hope it works out.

Oooh that is wonderful!  So happy for you, two!!!   And that is a nice picture!  Wish you the best!!!

I am not doing well. Sadly I am hurt AGAIN! The incident happened Sunday. Yesterday, with the help of some prayer, I started feeling normal by Tuesday afternoon and I felt grateful for it. But sadly, today, just now, I am hurt again. I was feeling normal today until I got that call. : (...

Thanks Callie.   I'll try not to assume things. However, I cannot imagine her not remembering that I had asked her to meet sometime.  I don't know.  I will try to be neutral but I don't think I am going to be so warm.   Not sure I want to chat with them because it left me so reeling and hurt.

A relationship is special depending upon the feelings and loyalty between two people.  Doesn't matter what configuration it is.

Thank You.  I still hurt because I don't understand why I am not deserving of affection but I am not going to respond to her anymore.

I am sorry. It's what people are doing during dating now. They ghost instead of tell you outright why they don't want to date you. Please don't take it personal. It happens to many. It's even worse if it happens after a long term dating relationship. It's a sign of the times. Just recognize...

I am just really sorry your mother committed suicide. That must have left you with so many questions. And maybe made you wonder if that will be you? How old was she?  Do you know what brought it on?  Did the family have an inkling of depression? My mother ended her life, too. I know it leaves...

I am "old" here I guess. I've always had anxiety about my birthday. Not about my age, I am very accepting and OK with my age (50+) but the birthday itself. I guess I feel why would people celebrate it. Similar feelings as you.

I appreciate all of your openness here. I don't feel invisible but I feel my feelings don't matter. I posted an incident this weekend on that topic. Hugs to you all

I just need to share.  Just fyi I am older than you guys. Well into middle age. I live in a city where I used to socialize with a few other women my age. We are all in the vegan community and we had that in common. A few years back, one of the women and I, formed a social club.  I ended up...

Hi Everyone! I appreciate everyone's reply. I mentioned this to my sister and she says whenever she has over the top emotions compared to the situation it's a trigger from a past of being abandoned. I think that is probably a good part of it. I think also the fact that I didn't get to know...

I am triggered by the smallest change and good bye.   I can send me into a depression as I feel right now. I have a neighbor.  A single woman around my age.   When I moved in two years ago we had chats and i enjoyed them. Then she got mad at me for being loud on the phone (my reception was poor...

I feel the same way.  I am a middle aged female. I am positive and like conversing and sharing with others.   I like to be emotionally generous.  I even lead a social group.  But I have trouble making the leap from acquaintance to friendship.  I don't know what it is.  Not many females are...

Hmmmmm.  Not everyone rejects the loner.  I don't.  I think people who don't understand loners or who fear it do reject it but those who do understand it don't.  What they don't get is you can be a very nice person and be a loner.  It doesn't make you mean or unpleasant. It just means you spend...

Hi Tropical. Thanks for posting. I just want you to know your reaction of anger is very normal. I was reading an article by the "Psychological Association" on the topic of social rejection and it's very normal to have feelings of anger, sadness, insecurity even with the slightest rejection...

Not sure if I posted about this before. I am part organizer of a social group.  I have a partner who helps me.  I am in my 50s she is around 70. We've been on friendly terms.  When we discuss things they are pretty much positive. We've shared a few things about our personal lives. For...

WELCOME!!! I don't feel like judging you at all. In fact you sound like an interesting person. PLEASE share your stories. It's wrong for them to treat you like that. If you have good character who cares if you are a stripper?

It looks like you had a breast augmentation. They are really large and you wore kind of a skimpy top. People are going to think you want the attention and act accordingly.  I would never say anything but others would say you are seeking attention.