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hmm well, for me you seem like a person that is quite capable of socializing since you don't have any trouble following the conversation, expressing yourself and you have quite the vast vocabulary baggage...so the problem might be elsewhere Although,communicating in real life is quite different...

Socializing has a great importance for people, it gives us a sense of unity and recognition for one another, it gives us assurance that we are not on this earth alone.....yes we are going to die and we are all deep down afraid of this inevibility.....why suffer from isolation when death gives us...

oh man I love you lol, that's pretty much what I wanted to explain. We give life to objects when we link them to certain memories, most of the time they're happy :) and yes buying new items does distract us from whatever pain we are feeling....like purchasing ice cream or chocolate when feeling...

Welcome to the forums ^^ I can relate to your problem since I'm 24, very shy and I have terrible low-self esteem and I have never been in a relationship either....but no one said it was gonna stay like this forever :D I think there's always a way out of bleak situations like being single for...

glad I'm not alone then o.o;

I'm 24 and I live with my parents too ...in fact so do my brothers and my cousins with their parents ect....the only good side is that everyone is going somewhere in their lives and not me :( I'm just like you....I just don't know what I want to do with my life....I wake up late cause I don't...

I agree with you Brian about College education not being the only choice available. You can get a decent job without a college diploma :) but it all depends on what you want to do. I don't know how the educational system works in other countries but in Canada, you can not be accepted in college...

Ah loneliness always makes me ask certain questions, one that has been on my mind for awhile is : while hoarding is thought to be a result of people having compulsive disorders, what about lonely people O: ? But I'm not talking about the massive, over the top uncontrolable type ^^ more...

Well...I used to be like you, think that at 22 or 23 a normal person should have had a job and start a family but after joining this forum I realised that, well...not everyone does that lol. Society is harsh and demands much from us, everything has to be done quickly and being single is like a...

Well, I understand your concern because..well...I'm a 24 year old girl that has never been in a relationship lmao.....so I myself do not know how a guy would react to this, but generally they don't care, I don't think having past experiences makes any difference, people are so unique..doesnt...

I say you're never too damaged beyond repair :) ...just like broken bones, they always heal, it just takes time ^^ and besides who said you were damaged at all ? being fat, thin, short, tall , doesn't matter....I'm a girl and I honestly don't care if the guy I'm dating or have a relationship...

I agree, Wishingwell, it was an amazing post ;3; <3 thankyou so much and no I won't give up and I have thought about taking care of my anxiety problem too...old teachers of mine suggested I see a psychiatrist..but..I only want to go when I'm 100% sure that I can't handle it, so far I've managed...

1st of all thanks for replying :D Also, I'm a girl so I doubt I'll be a father figure lmao but I understand what you mean. And I was in College for 4 years and made 0 friends...so....I just want to be done with it and gtfo and start working, I just find it easier to make friends when working (...

That's actually very inspiring and very sweet indeed ^__^ just shows that no matter what, you'll end up meeting that special someone one day :D

Thanks guys, it was really helpful .... I guess I do feel guilty but like you all said , I just need to let go and think about the present instead of obsessing so much X__X Hey sunny, I wish you luck on engineering , well once you graduate and find a job, after a few years you could always go...

I don't know really....in highschool I had like 5 close friends and a bunch of others who were merely shallow acquaintances, after graduating and heading for college, I lost track of many and now only have 1 best friend, who is pretty much like me, alone, living with her mom, barely goes out...

I started to panick today for the most stupid reason in the world .__.; As mentionned in another thread awhile back, I dropped out of a college program I had been undergoing for 4 years, yes very close to graduating, dropped out because, I hated it, I couldn't take it anymore and I just didnt...

I heard fireworks too yesterday night but I just put on my ipod and waited like a few hours before finally falling asleep :/

Well, there's only 1 hour left till we dive in 2011 and here I am alone on the computer in the basement, drawing, listening to music and browsing some forums :/ ....rather bleak if you ask me lol...but for some reason it does not bother me that much Just curious to know what you guys planned or...

I linger and lurk on various blogs or forums to pass time when I got nothing to do, or I draw and watch tv.....that's how you can keep yourself busy....sometimes I just lay in bed and listen to music and daydream .__.;;; makes time go faster and makes me happy to daydream my own little world...