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update: we haven't really been talking much, but I accidentally followed / unfollowed her new bf on Twitter and he instantly told her. I explained it was a mistake (it was, honestly) and she seemed okay w that. She listened to a playlist I sent her when we had stopped talking and then started...

my feelings still haven't faded. I still want her back as much as I first did. I've tried everything, even seeing other women. Not sure how to get her back other than giving her space and improving myself

she might be moving across the country soon...she wants me to sublet her apartment so she can?? I haven't responded to her question if I would want to or not, but wow my heart keeps sinking while I hold out what little hope I have for reconciliation. I really do love her so this sucks

I still have a tiny amount of hope but most of my friends think she used me and my one friend thinks I was a rebound (she was married for about 3 years, divorced for 2 months when we met). I still love her despite everything that's happened in the past few weeks. by the way, thank all of you...

picking up the pieces is the worst part of all of this. I did everything I could to make sure she'd be alright in her move and forgot about my own self in the process

well...she changed her relationship status on Facebook. I guess that's it, really. I still love her but I can't hang around at the moment. especially if she's really in love. I don't want to give up

Yeah, perhaps. I have gotten some interest from a firm in Brooklyn which is good news. And I just chatted with her a bit. She hasn't mentioned the new guy at all any of the times we've chatted. She seems happy for the progress I've made so far and is still sending me stuff she'd think I'd like...

she sends me a bunch of messages this morning (which I still haven't responded to) and then this evening she posts photos of them everywhere saying how much she misses him and Costa Rica... it stings a lot. she's one of the few people I saw an amazing future with. and I'm not sure how to get...

She still sends me messages though about things she thinks I'd like or stuff that is happening in her life. I haven't responded to her latest batch b/c I don't know what to say. I also don't want it to appear like I'm waiting around for her or can just talk whenever. But, I do want to leave the...

While I paid for a lot of stuff, she still paid for a fair amount even before I went broke. It was pretty even for a while and she even put in for gas (she doesn't have her own car) We'll see how much she cares for me now that we're not talking and she's in this new seemingly amazing...

absolutely.

I mean, I lost my self-sufficiency. We couldn't go out or do the things we used to. And my low wage job (which I still have) is kind of embarrassing. Even though she wasn't working herself, she still was doing things and has aspirations. She told me straight up that I was making her give up on...

Littlesecret, it was mostly about money issues, the times I didn't have any, but I also unintentionally hurt her emotionally and some of my anxiety issues stressed her out. She said "I don't want your burdens (stress, money issues, etc) I also don't feel like a victim. She was really good to me...

we had a deep connection right off the bat and we both knew what we wanted. she even told me she believed we'd be together for a long time I just really want a second chance but am not sure how to get one now that this other dude is in the picture. No idea if he's just a rebound or a new life...

her flight and hotel were paid for, she didn't have to pay a cent. I think the guy she's trying to be with right now is loaded. I feel like if I can at least get a decent new job, she'll reconsider her decision. She also said the brunch incident broke her trust in me b/c I didn't tell her I was...

okay, this one's going to be long but I need 500th opinion: So my longtime gf (6 months, living together for 5) and I broke-up about a week ago. It happened for a lot of reasons, but the biggest reason was b/c I went broke and she had to pay for a lot of things. I got a low wage job just so I...

:) thanks guys

Lately a lot of my friends have been getting into these seemingly fulfilling relationships, one even says he's in love. It's made me think about how chronically single I've been the past few years. My last super serious girlfriend was the last time I've made a real, long-lasting and fulfilling...

It seems to just hit suddenly at times. With no warning at all and then you have to deal with it.

I totally agree with everything said here. Depression puts you in a deep, dark black hole that you can't really talk to your friends about so you feel helpless. But, it sucks especially when you realize it's only amplified by loneliness. That maybe if you weren't so alone, you wouldn't be...