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Yes it's true that I'm not attracted to obese women on a physical level..as most guys aren't. But it goes much deeper than that, which it sounds like is the same for you. A healthy lifestyle is just something that's so important to me so I want someone who is on the same page with me. I...

It's been a while since my last post. Since then, I haven't been seeing any new girls. I've just been continuing to see the same girl I mentioned in my previous post. That's been going well and we seem to be moving very close to exclusive relationship territory. It is nice to get closer to...

Coming from a guy who has approached lots of women... I'd say it's definitely quite possible that he liked you but just lacked the confidence to ask you to exchange contact details. There have been plenty of times when I've initiated conversation with someone I was attracted to and then left...

Since my last post... I've been spending more time with the girl from date #1 in my previous post. I wasn't sure about her at first but she's definitely growing on me. I was back in my hometown again last weekend and caught up with the girl who I spent new years eve with. Shame we're in...

First Date Of The New Year I'd made plans with the girl from my December 10th post to come over when I got home from my Christmas trip. As TropicalStarfish said..this girl does seem to genuinely like me. She came straight over to my place and we spent the night together. It's good with I'm...

Have you tried Hinge? You can at least see who has liked you on there without needing to pay anything. I actually find I have more success on there than other apps. A mix of photos showing different parts of your life is good but still won't serve you well if you don't look good in them. Better...

New Years Eve I made plans with the girl from my last post on new years eve. This was really my last chance to see her before I went home. We watched the fireworks together at midnight and had a midnight kiss. The overall vibe was great again, just like on the first date. It all felt very...

I'd be curious to see the photos you used on Tinder. Seems odd that you wouldn't get any matches if you're not overweight. Have you tried the premium version to see if some women have at least swiped right on you? I've got a thread in the miscellaneous section where I've documented how I...

Date last night I've been getting some matches on the online dating apps since I've been back in my home town. But haven't been terribly motivated to meet up with them since I'll be going back soon. But I decided to meet up with one of my matches last night. We were originally going to meet up...

Haha well I don't know about that! But we did have another date on Friday night. I actually enjoyed her company a lot more on this second date than I did on the first. This time she came straight to my place which made things easier as well. One thing she said to me later in the night was...

Thanks BeyondShy!

I planned another date with the girl from my previous post for this weekend. And I wasn't intending on going on any other dates for the week. But one girl I was talking to on Hinge seemed very keen to meet so I ended up meeting up with her last night. It was an interesting one - we had pretty...

I had a second date with the girl from my last post (the Saturday night one) last night. She came over to my place and it was a really great night. Like with our first date, the conversation flowed really well again and there weren't any uncomfortable silences. Which is sometimes an issue for...

I just wrote out a much longer post and then accidentally closed the tab before posting. Very annoying! So I'll keep this one short. In my last post I mentioned the girl I was starting to see more often. We were actually getting fairly close. But then she started asking questions about what we...

Update The girl from that last post I ended up seeing her a few more times. She's gone a bit quiet over the last week or so but I'm ok with that since I've got other options at the moment anyway. Another girl who I've mentioned previously in several posts on here, I'm continuing to spend time...

Another first date during the week. I think I did pretty well on this one and had a good time. Seemed to strike a good balance between more serious getting to know her discussion and flirtatious/sexual tension. Perhaps the one thing I could have done better would have been to push the...

I've had a few more dates since my last post. I had a third date with the girl from my last post. Enjoying spending time with her. The other girl from my previous post went quiet after that date. Which I sort of expected since I played it too safe as I mentioned in that post. Playing it safe...

I heard recently about a survey that found about 27% of men between ages 18-30 in the US hadn't had sex at all since they were 18. For people outside of relationships, I think a lot are having sex very rarely.

The second date I had with the girl from my previous post went well. I had her come straight to my place and we had a really fun night. The other date I had planned for the weekend was an interesting one. This girl was definitely my type in terms of physical appearance. I think the fact that...

Last month I definitely had some improvement in the results I was getting in my dating life. But I didn't quite reach the success I had hoped to at the beginning of the month. When I looked back at the end of the month, I realised that probably my main problem was not setting up enough dates...