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I thought the "are you drunk?" was an insult. But I guess I was just tired. I had like 3 hours of sleep yesterday, and I probably would have been offended by anything. I can understand living in a place where there is nobody who's single. What I can't understand is...why can't you move? Or take...

You see, this is your problem. I offered you a compliment and some advice to work on yourself, and you proceeded to insult me and ignore my advice. It's a very childish way to act and not at all attractive.

What I'm trying to say is that romantic relationships or your past have no bearing on who you are as a person or how mature you are. It can affect your judgment or your happiness, but only if you let it. "The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem." - Captain...

I've heard about this dance. Is it like Homecoming? I went stag to every dance I went to. I even went to my senior prom stag, but I was bored out of my mind. And I ended up dancing with girls at every single dance I went to in high school, aside from the prom (which was why I was bored out of...

Many adults, even those who have been in relationships, sit around trying to find a date or feeling lonely. Those aren't "kid" traits. Movies like the 40 Year Old Virgin have tricked you into thinking that relationships make you into an adult. No. Being responsible, being moral, being...

Agreed.

I've been here long enough to see Blackdot's picture. And to be honest, he is very good looking. Much better looking than me. BD looks like a male model. For someone who looks like he does...I'm going to be blunt here...it's obviously his personality or something about how he comes across that...

No, there are female players.

A player is someone who has sex with lots of women, without attachments or any kind of feelings towards one another. Someone who sees someone he likes, and approaches her in the interest of getting to know her and date her...even if this person does this to 10 girls in a month...is not a...

My biggest regret is that I wasted the past 10 years feeling sorry for myself, instead of getting right to work on myself. If I had taken therapy seriously back in 2006-2007, maybe I would actually have a social life right now. But I don't regret spending more time with myself, because I've...

I have both female and male friends, but most of them are busy with marriages and kids, and don't have time to hang out anymore. Is this a red flag?

I've connected the panic disorder I formed in my 20's as a direct result of being bullied in middle school and high school. I was actively bullied from ages 12-19. When I turned 17, it got a bit easier, but I still was looked at as the social outcast, and got physical and emotional abuse, even...

He needs to change his attitude, not his looks. Yes, he can improve his body, but outside of seeing him in real life, and just going by his OP, the reason he doesn't have a girlfriend is because of his terrible attitude and low self esteem. Anybody can get a girlfriend if they actually believe...

What if he wants someone because they're attractive? Is he suddenly not allowed to go after someone like that because of the way he looks? What makes his desires and wants different from, say, Brad Pitt? I just get tired of that every time a guy (including me, in the past) complains about not...

I know Visual Basic (.NET), XHTML, and SQL. I'm trying to teach myself PHP, but it's not going so well.

I'm sorry, but this is terrible and not helpful advice. It's like saying all pretty women can't be geeks or like smart men/be smart themselves. I've met plenty of beautiful, amazing, smart women who like average looking, short men. So this is crap. The OP thinks that he's got terrible looks and...

There are much more important things than romantic love. And many people never find the one, so no, I don't think of it as a need. I disagree. I love certain family members, my friends, my pets, certain celebrities. And like Vanilla said, things like certain books, movies, TV Shows, music...

If you put it into perspective, everyone gets rejected. Steve Jobs got fired from Apple before it was successful. Walt Disney was told he had no imagination. Etc. I sometimes think like you, but I know some women like me...as friends. I haven't met anyone who likes me more than that, but am I...

Hehe, I forgot I posted this thread. For the record, I like her music...to a degree. But that song is annoying.

Yes. Yes. Entirely yes. If I meet someone and I'm not happy with who I am, then I certainly won't be happy with her. I need to learn to be happy by myself before I'll be happy with anyone else (this includes friendships, as well as romantic relationships.) Life doesn't stop just because you...