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how to break the spell of loneliness
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"just a drink of water, a person's voice, a crust of bread can often break the spell of loneliness and give you the will to go on ...When he was with us, we were careful to be neat, silent, wary, lest we break the spell of peace that descended upon our household
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(10-05-2009, 08:50 PM)johnswhite Wrote: "just a drink of water, a person's voice, a crust of bread can often break the spell of loneliness and give you the will to go on ...When he was with us, we were careful to be neat, silent, wary, lest we break the spell of peace that descended upon our household

i love the lifestyle you described above, it's simple yet it's meaningful. and unless this simplicity descended upon us, we could never escape the wide net of complicatedness. and unless we reduce all things to their necessities, we could never find their true form. and when we begin this reducing, we become an artist, for art needs beauty, and no unnecessary parts are needed in a work of art, and unless all the unwanted unnecessaries be cut off from it, the beauty in it would never wake up from her dormancy and show us her splendour of harmony. and if we apply this to life, then when we cut off all the unwanted parts of life, we could find only love remains there all the time, for it destroys every attempt of destroying it, and the one who want to cut it off from his presence will be cut off from her presence, but what a terrible absence it'd be! for without it nothing exists that exists, for it's the very essence of life. and any effort to promot it will never be unnecessary, no matter how much times you utter her name she'd never be irritated to anger, but will give those who praise her all they worth. so let love be the necessity of all our necessities, and become simple in her presence, for She'd said solemnly-" blessed are those who are simple."haha~~
let us break this wall of loneliness and enter again into that eden of togetherness.
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#13
Friendship. Very rare, even harder to find.
[Don't bother to look for it in England -it takes at least a year living in close approximity/ seeing each other on regular occasion before people even start to consider you as a potential accaintance.]
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(10-07-2009, 10:42 PM)Hope Wrote: Friendship. Very rare, even harder to find.
[Don't bother to look for it in England -it takes at least a year living in close approximity/ seeing each other on regular occasion before people even start to consider you as a potential accaintance.]

what you said is quite true. yes, friendship is very rare, and it's rare everywhere. that's the very reason we loners come here to share our feelings of being alone. and friendship is not a term for geographical relationship, but rather a term for psychological relationship, for the physical relationship is but a mirror of the relationship of heart, and when the latter disappears the former'd also die away with it. yet when our hearts are united in the same dream, then the friendship would once again revive from its deadlock, and become an universal key to all the locks of the dead, and absorb all of us once again into her garden of pleasure, to enjoy the joy of being united. and unless we break up the locks in our hearts how could we regain the key to the secret chamber of true friendship and be entertained by her generosity. so let's open our hearts to the truefriendship, then it'd once again open her heart to us, and be our house of happiness for all the time. so to be alone, or not to be alone, all depend on our own choice. though it's rare, but it doesnot mean it's extinguished, so it's still worthy of our true hope, the hope of the real relationship of men. and what can be called rare is priceless, just like the greatest scenery can be seen only by those who can ascend to the top of the highest mountain. so please give this hope a chance, and the chance of seeing this grand landscape would be endowed upon us once again.
let us break this wall of loneliness and enter again into that eden of togetherness.
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